Let me clarify something here for many of my Kokonut Pundit readers out there about myself and where I stand since gossiping seems to be a favorite pastime of Deaf culture as of late. An idiocy I want no part of (ie gossiping). Here’s is my bulleted list though not necessarily in any particular order.
1. I consider myself as a deaf/hh person.
2. I was born with a hearing loss due to my mother contracting Rubella during the Rubella outbreak in Washington and Oregon during the 1960s.
3. Began wearing my hearing aid at around age 2. Had I been outfitted at age 5 or 6 years old I would not have the ability to use the phone, talk or easily discriminate words at an older age into adulthood. I thank my mother for that. My brain development would be much more different had I wore my hearing aid at a much later time in my young life. It's a trained accomplishment that got me where I am today much like those who become an accomplished pianist. It took practice. And I am proud that I am able to use the phone and talk to any hearing person without worry. It’s a matter of confidence and pride on my part. It has nothing to do with me being better than you. Please remove that silly notion of yours if you actually think that this is the case. It is not. It’s about what I was able to accomplish in all those years that provided me the many successes in life up to today.
4. I do not call myself as a Deaf person since I am not one. It’d be incorrect to say that I am. Plus, that terminology is more about politics, labeling, and/or identity than anything else.
5. I am fluent in ASL having learned it at Gallaudet since 1988. Though not a native signer but nonetheless I am fluent.
6. My preference is to blog, and not vlog. There is no reason why I should “prove” my signing ability via vlogging. You see what you get in my blog. My specialty is doing research and writing as you probably can tell. Plus I don’t just ban anyone. I ban only a very few people whenever they violate my rules (see linked rules in my comment page). And that my ban list of IP addresses is removed every 4 to 5 months. Follow my rules and you’ll do fine. And lastly, being able to write comments in other peoples’ blogs is not a right. Let’s get that straight for once, folks. It’s not about freedom of speech. Rather, it’s about privilege and access to that blog comment page. I don't go running around screaming or whining and use the words "freedom of speech" and how my rights to free speech were violated because John Egbert, for example, didn't
put my comments up (move cursor over picture and click to enlarge). It is the blogger's right to do so and he/she is free to do whatever he/she wants. It is after all his/her blog and moderates the comment page as he/she sees fit even if it means using conspiracy theories as an excuse to knock comments off or have valid rules on keeping comments clean. I have the right to moderate my comment page as I see fit, too, as long as my rules are followed. If you can do that, you have nothing to fear from me.
7. Yes, I have a video phone and I have talked to deaf and Deaf people such as Kristi Merriweather, Greg Gunderson, Jason Curry, Julie Rem Smario, my wife’s Deaf friends, and numerous others. There are an umpteen number of Deaf people who can validate my signing skills. Understand this, just because I’m fluent in ASL/sign language/PSE doesn’t mean I’m Deaf. Perish the thought.
8. I have numerous hearing friends and co-workers that I talk with over the phone or in person. Or my next door neighbors, at my gym and so on. My days are mostly spent with these people rather than with the deaf/Deaf crowd. I prefer it that way. Oh sure, I don’t mind meeting deaf, Deaf, and hh people and go out and have a few drinks. Just so you don’t get the wrong idea, which will probably happen anyways.
9. I see myself as a member of the deaf and hard of hearing community regardless of the preferred mode of communication. I respect each person’s choice on how one prefers to communicate. I don’t subscribe to militant attitudes or thinking about being “one of us” which is a Deafism mentality. Not good.
10. I am also a member of the larger hearing community as well. Yes, a member.
11. Since I graduated from Gallaudet in 1992 it also means that I am a representative of Gallaudet University as well. And nothing you say or do can take that away from me. Frankly, some people don’t like that very idea but you’re stuck with me anyways.
12. When people whine, “Why did you go to Gallaudet then?” It’s because I wanted to see what it was like. I am not afraid to try new things like picking up a new tool called “ASL” along the way. But going to Gallaudet doesn’t make me a Deaf person, either.
13. I’d like to see Gallaudet University succeed and that the university finally gets some qualified undergrads for a change. Technology is the key to Gallaudet’s success. Many people don’t see that but that is where it’s heading anyway.
14. I received my MS in Geology (2 years Geophysics and then 3 years in Geology) at Univ. of Idaho. It was the most memorable school I went to. I loved going there. I met a lot of great people and professionals there during my 5 years there. It was a place far better than the crowded, dirty, and crime-ridden D.C.
15. I was awarded a PhD study in Civil Engineering at Univ. of Maryland in the snow hydrology and water resource program. I received a competitive 3 year research assistant deal from the Univ. of Md. and was awarded a$5000 NASA grant to help pay any educational costs. But I turned it all down for a career with the federal govt. I never regretted that decision. I outlined that story in my recent blog to show readers the difficult choice I had to make. And to point out that very few deaf and hard of hearing people are in the Earth science field. If you think it’s called bragging, perhaps you need a little introspection on your part to see why that is the case. Perhaps jealousy is in you. I applaud anyone deaf or hard of hearing person who worked hard to get their advanced degrees despite the odds. You don’t see people talk about that nowadays. Inspiration is in such short supply nowadays. Many are afraid to speak about their educational accomplishments and what it took for them succeed because of that little nagging fear that the Deaf community will rise up and lambaste them for “bragging” for their accomplishments. Hence, the oft repeated crab theory gone amok once more.
16. I don’t belittle other people’s English skill whether they’re deaf, Deaf, hh or hearing. People who say that I do belittle Deaf people’s English skills in my blogs or elsewhere are nothing more than sordid liars who just want to stir the pot. They have no idea what they are talking about. I put the faith in readers who read my blog that they have the skill and the means to look up words for themselves if they don’t understand what it means.
17. My interest is on dealing with communication and technology issues that can help close the communication gap between deaf, hh, Deaf and hearing people whether it’s hearing aids, Cochlear implants, neural implants, UbiDuo communication device, relay operator, video phone, ASL interpreter, Cued speech, Cued speech transliterators, international translator technology, ASL translator, speech to text, speech to ASL, automatic real time captioning, and so on. My focus is on the 30 million people with hearing loss rather than to focus only on the 900,000 Deaf people in the United States. Picking sides is where fractionation occurs when one favors one subgroup over another. Not a good idea in my case.
18. Extremism does exist in the Deaf community. Get used to that idea, folks. Extremism also exists in the hearing community, the oral community, and so on. If “Audism” exists then certainly “Deafism” (i.e. Deaf militant) also exists. Just as I believe there are some “closeted” Deaf militants out there who pretend to be one thing when it’s not the case. Pretending to favor the concept of “Deafhood” isn’t going to work. Once an extremist, the person tends to stay as an extremist. Perhaps like once a KKK clan the person would tend to have those KKK tendencies throughout their life. Be careful on how you read into what I just wrote. It’s not what you think. People can change for the better, no doubt. But actions speak louder than words, folks. And as for “Deafhood,” as you may already know, I don’t subscribe to that kind of political correctness. Short, sweet and simple. It’s more about culture than not. Read my “deafhoodism” blogs for more explanations.
19. I believe that bilingualism is not for all deaf/hh people, including children. It can, however, apply to many deaf/hh children but not so for many others. There is never a one size shoe fits all answer. It’s too complex. Parental decisions are involved anyway. Technology is constantly changing that picture when you have upcoming neural implants and even biotechnology that will address even more on helping aid hearing loss. And while I’m at it, I believe that visual sign language (not necessarily always ASL) would be good to both hearing and deaf/hh babies up to 2 to 4 years old. Then it’d be parents of a deaf/hh toddler to decide on what to do next. Even if it means dropping out sign language altogether and focus on speech and hearing. Whatever the case might be, as long as parents make an*informed* decision about their deaf/hh child then I have no problem with that.
20. I believe that deaf and hard of hearing people can do anything, including being able to hear and be successful at it. You have your choices to make seeing how rapid technology is taking place and how it can complement your skills helping you succeed whatever life throws at you. You may strike out or you may hit a home run. The choice is yours for the making.
Note: I reserve the right to add more bulleted items later on. If you have any questions, do not be afraid to ask. And all I ask is that you maintain a sense of decorum when commenting and not attack the blogger or other commenters. That is all I ask of you people. Grossly violate my rules and you’ll get locked out for the next 4 or 5 months. Use your comments wisely here and learn from each other for a change.