Erroneous and dishonest blogging by CAM

I "supported" the AB2072 bill predicated on the fact it was supposed to help inform parents make an informed decision regarding their deaf children identified with hearing loss. And that was the aim of this bill. But during the whole legislative process of adding new amendment after new amendment it became increasingly convuluted as I have said before near the end of the whole process. The bill was important that it also gave greater recognition to ASL as I have said repeatedly in my blogs and that it'd be a plus for pro-ASL organizations for a legislative body to recognize ASL as a language on paper for the first time. But with the increasing complexity added to the bill through amendments I made my point on August 26, 2010 about the bill in my blog the bill's diverging from its original intent (i.e. all communication options) when I published CAA's letter to Tony Mendoza for all to see:

All in all, the continual adding of admendments and other changes in the bill in order to placate Deaf protesters' demands have gotten to the point where their actions have helped vulgarized the bill's original intent. Even the protesters were still not satisfied. From the gist of it legislators seemed to have lost sight for the rest of the children who are mostly hard of hearing or have a hearing loss only in one ear that audiologists frequently diagnose than those who are profoundly deaf. That's what seems to be missing here.

CAM gets it wrong in her recent blog about me.

Candy (Gina Sutton) and Mike McConnell verbally supported this bill saying parents should have full access to information but yet were perfectly okay with the original bill minimizing the information on ASL which was expected of them as they are supporters of oralism.

My "verbal support" of the bill was based on as long as parents make an informed decision regarding all communication options (which includes ASL) then I have no problem with their decisions. This has been my stance for years if you had bothered to do any proper research. The bill's intent was to inform parents of all communication options available. I applauded that ASL was included later on in the bill. Nothing was said about minimizing the information on ASL. In fact, I pointed out that information available to parents should be made equally so in an unbiased manner of all communication options (i.e. visual, auditory and language options) on August 10, 2010.

In other words, this pamphlet MUST provide benefits and risks for the ASL option as well as for any options described in it. And in an unbiased manner, too. It'd be foolish and folly to think that ASL will be excluded from the risk part if every other options must describe the benefits and risks when everything is of equal weight and value in terms of information provided for the parents....in an unbiased manner.

Also, CAM, where did I say that I said that governor Schwarzenegger did the right thing? That's rather puzzling if not dishonest coming from you to say that. Making things up are you? All I did was that I outlined the governor's reasons for not supporting the bill and that his reasons aligned closely to that of CAA's reasons for dropping their support against the bill in my most recent blog about the veto. In my blogs I understood some of CAA's points on why they withdrew their support for the bill. I haven't even pointed out whether I supported the governor's veto or not. Either you are not reading my blogs right, you have not read them at all or that you are purposely making things up along the way for whatever reasons. In this case about Arnold you are making things up.There is no back-pedaling on my part since I've made no statement about Arnold's veto.

Until you provide the links on exactly what I said and where it'd be best to properly make your arguments based on those actual facts and comments rather than make things up along the way as you are wont to do. Until you do your recent blog has no standing, truth or validity regarding me or my blogs.

Hooked on Visual Phonics - cued speech

Recently there has been another little round of huffiness over a recent article on cued speech written in the Washington Post. Either some people feel threatened by the title "Cued Speech Could Gain Popularity Among Deaf" or the fact that the article said about the similarity of cued speech to that of sign language (ASL) in the subtitle, "An alternate form of sign language could be gaining momentum in the deaf community."

Not knowing the full distinction between the two the writer is correct about the similarity and that it uses hand gestures as part of the communication package. Though I don't think the writer was attempting to equate cued speech as the equivalent of ASL as a language.

Here below is an excerpt in one of my blog I did on that subject back in 2006.

Cued speech or more appropriately Cued English is now believed to be the best source of visual language support for the spoken English language and it’s ability to identify idiomatic expressions and nuances. The main purpose of Cued Speech is not for speech purposes but for literacy.

You can read the rest of what I've written about cued speech back in 2006. Lots of information and explaination on what cued speech is about.

Also, you can watch four YouTube videos of native cuers with two subjects being an ASL signer. Those videos were blogged back in 2008 and be sure to watch the fourth video at the bottom in my blog.

And here's a recent article written in the Washington Post a few days ago about about cued speech highlighting the first known family to exclusively use cued speech for their deaf kids and not ASL or any signing methods at home.

Born deaf to deaf parents, identical twins Lola and Ella Scher of Rockville learned from the beginning to talk with their hands. When they were 9 months old, they produced their first word: shoe.

If they had used American Sign Language, or ASL, they would have said "shoe" by tapping their fists together twice. But their parents used a different form of communication, cued speech. So they taught each girl to make an "L" shape with her right hand, touching her index finger to her chin. That wasn't a symbol, like the ASL gesture; instead, it signaled how the word sounds in spoken English. They would have used the same gesture to say "shoo!"

Grace Consacro and Steve Scher had grown up using cued speech, and they taught it to their twins, now 5, and their deaf son, Max, who is 3. In May, the National Cued Speech Association recognized the family for its dedication to cueing.

"As far as we know, we're the only family [in the country] that uses cued speech exclusively," said Consacro, 34, who teaches both cued speech and ASL at Flower Valley Elementary School in Rockville. (note by Kokonut Pundit, she does not teach ASL - see Washington Post error correction).

This mother of two deaf twins made an important point about cued speech.

"It's not intended to be anything more than an aid to learn a language,"

There you go. An aid to help develop language. In this case, the English language even though cued speech can be used and adapted to with any spoken language throughout the world.

Another advantage of cued speech for deaf/hh children is to allow a relatively smooth transition into the hearing world. The article ends with a very profound remark from the same mother who uses cued speech.

Sometimes, the Scher-Consacro twins misinterpret or mispronounce words; but they can now follow conversations and speak very much like hearing children.

"My kids are deaf," Consacro said. "They have the miracle of the technology of cochlear implants, [and] they have the language from their dad and I cueing - it just works."

It just works. Just as I have said before, the power of hearing technology helps make oralism (oral-auditory) a very powerful draw due to its continuing successes. Oralism cannot be "stamped out" in favor of ASL. So, it's a matter of time until cued speech finally takes off nationwide on such a large scale. You can thank Gallaudet University for helping facilitate the start of cued speech.

Here's your chance to learn more about cued speech in a video below.

A quick analysis on the vetoed AB2072 bill

After reading the governor's letter on why he choose to veto the AB2072 bill I noticed three things he mentioned why.

1. The formation of an advisory committee would possibly be a duplicative work of other state programs.

2. The use of advisory committee would be quite biased.

3. And lastly use of an advisory committee would represent a significant workload which will require fiscal resources that the state is already short on.

In one paragraph near the end he stated that there are other resources and efforts being done by state agencies and departments that already try and get the information out to the parents with children identified with hearing loss. In fact, the CAA pointed this out in a letter to Tony Mendoza as seen in the first page, fifth paragraph:

Additionally, existing Health and Safety Code, Article 6.5 Section 124119.5 of Chapter 3 of Part 2 of Division 106, related to newborn and infant hearing screening, already provides for the dissemination of this information to parents. The Federal government already sponsors unbiased brochures, which are updated annually, by professionals in the area of communication options for the deaf and hard of hearing. These brochures can be provided to Californians at no cost. Further, there is really no reason, in our view, for such a broad expansion of this program in these difficult times.

This letter is very similar to the governor's own responses for his reason on vetoing the bill. Despite that, with the state continuing budget cuts will likely affect state organizations that are funded and supported through state grants in order to continue with their operations. With the governor vetoing the AB2072 bill means that ASL will not be recognized as a language in the state of California. And because of that pro-ASL deaf organizations who rely on state grants to help work with children and parents with hearing loss may be at risk. Had a similar bill to that of AB2072 with the inclusion of ASL that gets signed by the governor would have undoubtedly raise in recognizing ASL as a language and thereby have a greater chance of surviving any fiscal cuts via through grants to those organizations in California.  So, who really got hurt here?

Deaf lies, videos and squeaky beds

I just had a horrible, horrible discovery. I had the speaker sound on my laptop cranked up and boy did I hear a lot more sound which turned out to be a bit more, um, too  "revealing" for the ear, so to speak. What I was hearing certainly sounded exactly what it sounded like. I wished the guy who told me didn't do that when he strongly suggested that I go and listen to a "certain" deaf vlog did I realize what I was listening to. Even though those particular vlogs I avoid like the plague. Not even interested in them. But with my friend's insistence he told me to go and listen to it and turn up the volume. I cranked up my laptop's speaker, not bothering to watch the horrid video, and suddenly I can hear the unmistakeable sound of, well, um, two hacky sacks slapping rhythmically against something for about 22 seconds and then from there on you can hear the rhythmic squeaking of a bed that vary in intensity and speed for over 2 minutes. You get the picture. Either this has happened for real or somebody is playing a very loud, um, happy movie. But happy movie it ain't. Get somebody who can hear and ask him or her to listen to it. And see what they say and perhaps confirm it. Figure it out yourselves. I shall not name who, what or where. Make sure your hearing kids are not around, too.

A valuable tip for the deaf folks out there whenever you videotape yourselves. Please, please! turn off your microphone first! Nobody want to hear these sordid grunting noises, the slapping of hacky sacks, squeaky bed sounds, the groaning or screams of torture sound (in no particular order) emanating from your video. Check it once, check it twice, make sure your microphone is off before you even began video-taping yourselves for your vlogs.

Now, I need to go and take a shower. Once is enough.

The immaturity of some deaf people

The first time in my life did I realize that there are some people who are simply immature for what they do or have done that disrupts the lives of other people. What I'm talking about is my experience at Gallaudet University where I first stayed at Benson Hall dormitory building which is located in the center of the campus. A dorm whose building was mostly occupied by incoming freshman students. What got me and others our ire was the fact that over the course of a year there were perhaps several d/Deaf people who disrupted the entire Benson Hall dormitory building of some perhaps 200 people or so by pulling the fire alarm at 2 AM in the morning. Sometimes on rare occassions a fire alarm would go off twice in a single night forcing the still sleepy and tired occupants of Benson Hall outside into the cold night while firemen with their blaring fire trucks would come and investigate the building. Not only was I embarrassed for the fire personnel to do that on a regular basis it was also a continuing safety hazard by forcing hundreds of people out of a building because of false fire alarms pulled by cranks.  This was an embarrassing and maddening scene that I come to experience so much in a single semester while living in that dormitory. The constant false fire alarms disrupted many students sleep impacting their education throughout the day because they couldn't get enough sleep. And it wasn't just Benson Hall but other dormitories as well that experienced the false fire alarm problem such as Peet Hall, Ballard West and Ballard North dormitories which consisted of mostly the younger students (e.g. freshman, sophomore). Although I believe Benson Hall was the worst of all dormitories. While at Carlin Hall and Clerc Hall they generally have more matured students who were either juniors, seniors or graduates. I certainly don't remember much about Carlin Hall experiencing false fire alarms, perhaps one or two, at least I got my sleep over there.

Not only was Benson Hall that bad with the false fire alarms but it was bad on a morning after a night of students partying on Friday and Saturday nights would I find vomit in the elevator, the stairwells, outside near the entrances, sometimes on a wall smeared with vomit, and one or two students strewn about in the dormitory lounge area still passed out. In fact, one morning I came across a passed out male student lying face down in his own vomit on the floor in the dormitory lounge area on the second floor of Benson Hall where I stayed. It was simply a disgusting scene to experience almost every weekend. And then, of course, you have a trash problem as well.

With Gallaudet University you had your good and bad things about it. But those false fire alarms were nothing to sneeze at since it was a regular occurrence at Benson Hall back in 1988. It was a classic case of how immature people behave.  It was as if back then d/Deaf people simply accepted that as part of their "community of culture." They just shrug their shoulders and say, "Oh, well, those things happen." I would just shake my head and simply say "That's not acceptable." It was one of those experiences I had while basically living in a closed off society on the campus of Gallaudet University did I get to see some of the prevailing attitudes people had at the time. It was a revelatory time for me.

ADDENDUM: Looks like things have not changed at Benson Hall as reported in the Buff and Blue newspaper written today about the problems of false fire alarms pulled by immature cranks.

A "hand wave" to Karen Putz

I've been meaning to blog this after what my wife told me what happened in Chicago during her high school reunion at John Hersey High School meeting up with her former deaf classmates. It's the same high school where both my wife and Marlee Matlin went at the same time and they both knew each other as well. But Marlee wasn't there. Oh well. When my wife went to register Karen Putz, who was at table, recognized the name "McConnell" and inquired if she was married to me. She said "Yes" and soon Karen's face lit up in surprise and inquired if I was around. She shook her head saying "No" saying that I didn't come due to a previous conflict. Karen then explained to my wife how she enjoy reading my blogs. In fact, she also interviewed me for the Hands and Voices article a few years back just a fyi for ya'll.  And now, I'd like to take this opportunity to send a long awaited "hand wave" back at her for the kind words she parted with my wife. And, oh, I do enjoy reading Karen Putz's blogs as well, especially the barefooted ones.

Fried brains and yummy desserts

I'm sure you've heard of the expression when someone get their "brain fried" or how "he must've fried his brain." It's when one takes too much of something, like drugs or too much academia in this case, that have rendered a person's brain to a much lower functioning level without the person ever knowing it. Sometimes "analysis paralysis" has this effect, too, which can become a case of "terminological inexactitude." The expression "terminological inexactitude" was coined by Winston Churchill which is basically a play on words by calling to the misapplication of labels and the danger or damage that can be done by doing so.  Kind of like a deaf person calling another deaf person an "avdist" when it's entirely ridiculous to even say that thinking the guy must've fried his brain for saying that. The "avdist" term would be totally bogus and misapplied. Here's another example of a "fried brain" syndrome.  One other example would be for a person to go through the whole armchair analysis over a certain group of deaf/hh bloggers and vloggers and ultimately conclude the reason they do their blogs or vlogs the way they do was because they feel that the Deaf community and culture have "rejected" them.  This sort of conclusion would be plumbing the depth of extreme silliness. I suppose, figuratively speaking, somebody must've "fried his brain" for even to conclude that (insert laugh track).

Ready for some yummy desserts?

The ridiculousness goes beyond the pale whenever Deaf people try to determine whether the feeling of "rejection" by the Deaf community and culture have occurred for other people. Here's why it's silly to try and do that armchair analysis. There's an expression "different strokes for different folks" which means there are different people who like to do things differently or live in different ways within their own community. In this case deaf/hh people do things differently in different communities and how they participate and interract in the Deaf, deaf/hh and hearing communities. We all should recognize that.

This should be about how people value and respect other people opinions, even when they bring up tough questions or discuss certain "taboo" subjects. The "frying of one's own brain" would be to try and justify one's own conclusion thinking how people write is a sign of feeling of rejection by the Deaf community at large. Which would be patently funny in the attempt at academia here. Rather there are certain number of people or group of people within a certain segment of the Deaf community that rejects those Deaf, deaf and hh bloggers and vloggers because of what they write.  Despite that many Deaf people have on the other hand welcomed and embraced those bloggers and vloggers.

Hmmm... a conundrum pie here. Done with your fried brains? Here's my slice.

For all intent and purposes Barry (The Holism) and Errigo are seen as "Deaf people" (bear with me so I can make a point here). Two very different backgrounds and upbringings who are fluent in ASL. Yet they have many Deaf, deaf, hh and hearing friends and supporters within the Deaf, deaf/hh, and hearing communities. Do you think they feel "rejected" by the Deaf community? No. It'd be funny to even say that. Rather it is quite correct to say that there are certain segments within the Deaf community who do reject Barry and Errigo outright simply because of their opinions in their blogs and vlogs. Opinions, viewpoints, and perspectives that do go against the grain of many Deaf people. This goes the same for me.

I don't feel rejected by the Deaf community as a whole based on the comments and the conversations I've had with Deaf people over the years. Heck, I walk on the campus of Gallaudet University and I certainly do not feel "rejected" by the Deaf community whenever I talk and interact with Deaf professors, students and other people who know or recognize me. I certainly do not feel "rejected" by the Deaf community whenever my Deaf wife and I go and visit Deaf events like Deaf Nation or other similar events. Or when we meet up with our Deaf friends and so on. I certainly do not feel rejected when I read DVTV responses to my videos and how I interact with them. I certainly did not feel "rejected" by the Deaf community when I used my voice in my speech in front of a live internet (Deaf) audience and the people who sat before me at Gallaudet University's first ever vlog/blog panel discussion a few years back. Does it really matter on this whole Deaf community rejection thing? In a word, no. Not one bit. But the reality is that there are some Deaf people who have categorically rejected me and other Deaf people for various reasons. And that's fine. That's life. Easy as apple pie I'd say. The Deaf community as anybody should know is a mixed bag out there. It's an impossible task to please everybody because everybody has an opinion on things.

I think this whole "analysis" attempt to try and determine whether the feeling of "rejection" by the Deaf community as a whole probably boils down to perhaps some people are simply peeved about missing out on a Monopoly game I had earlier thinking it was a real thing? Or perhaps it's about their own insecurity and inadequacy regarding their own academia background do they try and do the whole arm chair psychology bit to appear more, um, "authentic"? I don't know. But certainly this "fried brain syndrome" is getting out of hand here.

So, how was your dessert? I hope you liked it.

A video tribute to John Tracy Clinic

Here's a special video thanks to the John Tracy Clinic where I am a successful product of their oral-auditory program.  This a candid and frank video about my background in my oralism upbringing which made me for who I am today. Without it I wouldn't be where I am today.

Deafhood - religion like?

Recently over the last few days based on comments I received in my blogs I had the realization about how some people follow "deafhood" to such an extreme. How extreme? That depends. One commenter named "Kim" had this to say about "Deaf culture" in one of my most recent blog where she discussed "deafhood" and religion:

Language and religion are definitely huge. While we can't say that Deaf people have their own separate religion, their fervent belief in the Deafhood experience almost seems like a religion sometimes.

There it is. Religion and "deafhood" in the same sentence. So that got me thinking.

Kim soon clarified the next day on what she meant by what she said earlier.

Judging by v/blog posts (and comments) it seems like there's this strong fanatical, almost religious-like movement of Paddy Ladd worshippers who spout passages from his book like it's the Holy Bible of Deaf existence. So when people like Mike here ask questions, such as "is there a Deaf culture," there is a tendency among those "few" to over react, and sometimes they accuse him (and others) of not being Deaf since he doesn't seem to believe the right thing.

Candy also followed up about the whole oralism thing segueing into "deafhood" in that same blog.

This one need to be documented and published in the deaf blog as part of deaf history of deafhood and how they really are taking Paddy Ladd's colonialism too far. I suggest you all view Ella's comment number 41 in ASLrocks. It is a must viewing to see how delusional this deafhood thinking is. There is this evidence right there that indicates that dh is all about going after this oralism system rather than a personal journey to find one's deaf center.

Is there a conflict of interest here regarding certain "deafhood leaders"?

Let's look behind Curtain #1 about the Deafhood Foundation and you'll find a familiar name as who those board members are, and quickly you'll get to the "Vision" part where it says:

The Deafhood Foundation will provide financial, educational and social opportunities to end the economic exploitation of Deaf people. The Foundation aims to free the world from a*dism and recreate a society where everyone experiences full humanity and celebrates Sign Language.

So, this "deafhood" isn't about celebrating individual's own identity and personal journey wherever it goes even if it means identifying and embracing oralism and excluding ASL but about the attempt to wipe out oralism, avdism and have sign language to take its place instead according to one "deafhood leader"? Even though oralism has shown to be beneficial in many cases (even I have benefitted tremendously from it, too):

Deaf individuals who use Oralism have "proficiency with spoken language and . . . have an average reading ability . . . of thirteen to fourteen-year-old levels, which is approximately double the national average for all children who are deaf" (Stone 2). Furthermore, programs using Oralism generally have strong academic curricula resulting in high achievement levels and more students who go on to complete secondary or higher education programs (Schwartz 167-168). This also results in "more social, educational, and work opportunities . . . [and] to a more fulfilling and independent adult lifestyle" (168). With such results, it can be understood why those who value education truly approve of Oralism. These benefits of Oralism allow deaf individuals to reap the educational benefits and equal opportunities that people such as Mary Wollstonecraft strived to obtain and society, particularly the Oralists, continue to cherish.

It is obvious that oralism has its own benefits and that many deaf and hard of hearing people have benefitted tremendously from that. I understand that there are those who fell between the cracks and how beneficial signing is on an emotional and social level. But that's beside the point here. If people simply cannot leave alone the philosophical concept of what a personal journey of a deaf or hh person is like but instead use it as foundation to push their own ideology while espousing for the "death of oralism" and so on certainly does give it a religion-like feel. A fanactical-like following.

If this continues then this whole "deafhood" thing will simply stay within the Deaf community circle that is mostly accepted by some Deaf people rather than seeing it accepted by the rest of the hearing loss population that is 33 times bigger than the Deaf population of some perhaps 900,000 Deaf people.  This acceptance by the bigger population will never happen if this fanaticism continues. This is the perception of what many people would probably see whether they're hearing, deaf or hh who happen to come across this whole "deafhood" drama. Especially seeing how some "leaders" and other "followers" would prop up this "deafhood journey" under the guise of a friendly non-profit Deaf organization while in the background advocate for the "death of oralism," use of ad hominems, harrassment (see Tayler Mayer's example who is the owner of Deafread) and such. No wonder other groups like "Deafhood? No Thanks" cropped up recently as a response to this whole mess.

Many people do cherish the free and independent thinking regarding the many hearing loss issues out there and recognize the fact that there is no one shoe size fits all when it comes to addressing hearing loss, modes of communication, education and language development. Especially in a period of time when technology has been a boon to help address communication, educational and language developments owing to the simple fact is that hearing loss range from mild to profound. The diversity is large and mixed out there.

As a closing, I liked what Kim said in my blog "You have to be hard of hearing to understand":

People like Ella can never understand what it's like to be me. I experienced a life time of hearing before my hearing began to decline. Those experiences made me who I am. Naturally I still identify with hearing people.

Through HLAA and ALDA, I am part of a growing, thriving, powerful mostly oral deaf community, and we don't care what Ella thinks.

And you know what?  Hearing Loss Association of America (HLAA) would certainly look to be the better organization to join when it comes to advocacy and support in a more neutral manner rather than wade into chest deep the hypocrisy, the conflict of interests, unprofessionalism, rogue followers and petty politics. And I'm certain people wouldn't want to be a part of an organization or group of people that has a religion-like feel to it seeing how some use an inquisition-like process whenever one states a view opposite of somebody else's opinion. And then there comes the auto de fe.

This whole thing simply doesn't feel right.

Anonymous comments no longer allowed!!

I agree with what Tayler is doing. He feels he has no choice. I can imagine all the crap he had to endure seeing all those anonymous comments by deaf cowards who are a bunch of thumb-sucking anal retentative babies in the effort to demean, attack and perhaps even threaten him to some extent through anonymous commenting. Anonymous comments meant to demean and attack Tayler for what he's done with Deafread and DVTV are rather petty. Even petty still to attack him for his own personal opinions. I'd rather see a face or at least a real name to go with the comments but I still do allow anonymous comments to go through my blog today even though some of them are from those who are cowards. Still, I let them through. Normally I'd allow them to go through instead of deleting them which is a rare thing I do. At least I can have some examples of what an anonymous coward looks like in my comment sections when I do my next "Best and Worst Responses" for 2010 as I have done in 2007. My favorite comment for "Best and Worst Responses" in 2007?

“Another eye opener is the claim that 40 percent of my blogs were about him. Now, I've done 1068 blogs in over two years. If I did 40 percent, that would be 427 blogs!! LoL! The guy is really bad at math.”

Yeah, not only delusional but really, really bad at math.

Heh.

Deaf and hard of hearing awareness at Disneyland

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At least Disneyland has the right frame of mind to include ALL people with hearing loss to enjoy what the park has to offer for improved communication performances and simply just not those who are Deaf and know ASL. The people at Six Flags actually excluded those who do not know sign language. Unreal. Six Flags' own "Deaf and Hard of Hearing Awareness Day" was hardly anything but accomodating to the rest of the non-signers (or even those who just started learning) had they actually attended thinking they'd be accomodated.

Deaf person says "No such thing as a Deaf culture"

I bringing this up to make up a point. There is this deaf person I know very well who is absolutely fluid and fluent in ASL and has been signing all of his life brings up his own perspective saying that there is no such thing as a "deaf culture" in a recent blog of mine.

Most deaf people have to use ASL because they cannot master English, a language that requires thorough understanding of phonetics. To say ASL is "beautiful" smacks of arrogance. Might as well be French and claim French is beautiful.

The majority of deaf people signing ASL will never master English. It is indeed a last resort language.

There's no deaf cuisine, there is no deaf costume, there is no deaf religion, there is no deaf furniture, so who are we to say there is a deaf " culture?

Would this be arrogance, too? Or maybe this person knows a thing or two and is correct in his observation that there is no such thing as a "Deaf culture"? This person can easily pass as a "Deaf person" and he can make mince meat out of your own arguments if he wanted to.

Now, here's a mysterious person who called him/herself as a "sighted Deaf person" submitted a 2008 article for Deafread "There is no such blind culture" in a rebuttal attempt to my blog, "Deaf culture? Yes. Blind culture? No. Arrogance?" One problem though, there is nothing to rebut in the first place.

Had this mysterious person understood where my article was going he would've understood that my point was from the point of view of a blind person. In short, who are you or anybody else to say that there is no such thing as blind culture if a blind person believes there is one? Even if another blind person says there is no such thing as a "blind culture" it doesn't negate what other blind people believing that they have a thriving blind culture of their own.  Just as this deaf guy said "so who are we to say there is a deaf culture?" This is exactly what I was getting at in my other recent blog, who are we to say there is no such thing as a blind culture? Would it be arrogant for a Deaf person to deny a group of blind people their reasonings that there is a blind culture? Or would this simply be a case of lack of education or not fully informed? Or perhaps it's true there is no such thing as a blind culture. Just as it could be true that there is no such thing as a Deaf culture according to one deaf guy.

Before ya'll get hot under the collar, re-read what I'm trying to say before you start saying something stupid.

You have to be hard of hearing to understand

It's not just "you have to be deaf to understand" but for me to tell other people it's "you have to be hard of hearing" to understand. The difference is quite pronounced between the two. Which is why I support Hearing Loss Association of America (HLAA) which was once known as SHHH (Self Help for Hard of Hearing People).

Yes, even I tell deaf people or those who cannot hear at all or benefit from hearing aids that you have to be "hard of hearing" to understand just as I would tell a hearing person the same thing. Although with my experiences I do understand from a hearing person's point of view as well as a completely deaf person's point of view as well as their experiences since I share many similar experiences between the two.

As a hard of hearing person I stress the importance of using one's own voice especially when it comes to elocution, training of the ear to understand words and sound, the enjoyment of sound, and just being able to take advantage of technology that supports or enhances one's own hearing level.

Some people have it easier as a "hard of hearing" person than others because of the amount of hearing loss, the early exposure to oral and aural approaches, and so on. These things vary from one HH person to the next. For us hard of hearing people we prefer to talk just because it comes naturally and easier for us to do so. For us hard of hearing people we enjoy music and even take up musical instruments for our enjoyment. For us hard of hearing people we enjoy having verbal conversations with people whether it's in in person or even over the phone. Our lifestyle and preferences vastly differ from the lifestyle and preferences of culturally Deaf people. Just because people who are hard of hearing and have preferences does not mean they reject "Deaf culture" but that they have a preference. It does not mean that hard of hearing people do not know sign language when many of them do. It does not mean that some of them are not a part of the Deaf community when they are but whether they are active in that particular community or not is not of anybody's concern.

You see, sometimes you do have to be "hard of hearing" to understand. Not as a deaf person but a person who is able to take advantage of what's hearing is left in the world of sound. It's a labor of love.

Deaf culture? Yes. Blind culture? No. Arrogance?

Alicia made a response today in a blog called "Why do deaf people want to be considered a culture and not a disability, but not blind people? "

Because while Deaf people have their own language, arts, poetry, stories, and so forth... blind people do not.

Says who? Isn't this rather an arrogant thing to say? Would it be arrogant and perhaps selfish for a Deaf person to say that?  For anybody to say that?

In an old discussion forum from several years ago one person who is blind had this to say about "Blind culture."

Does blindness have a culture? I've asked this question a number of times in various situations and the most common answer is "no". The subject of whether blindness has borne a culture is a topic of debate in many blindness-related forums and meetings.

The existence of a deaf culture is not in dispute. Many people are proud to be counted in that community and consider their inability to hear to be a characteristic and not a disability. Blindness is viewed in almost the opposite light. It's odd.there are many people who would attach certain characteristics and behaviors to all blind, and yet deny that we have a culture of our own.

To admit that blindness was more than a disability, that it was a cultural characteristic of which we could be proud, would be like finally admitting that we are not the pitiful creatures that the media, and some of society, usually portray. To call us a culture would be like recognizing our uniqueness without belittling it. Would it be an accurate term though? Are we truly a culture?

I posit that we are. Many of us use a form of written communication that differs from the mainstream. Braille bears no visual resemblance to the written alphabet and only a person trained to read Braille can do so. And, it is a form of reading and writing unique to the blind. Even (most) visually impaired print readers have to either get their materials from an alternative source, or use technical aides to enhance the print.

The need to do this is unique to the visually impaired. Like some signing deaf people need an aural interpreter, those of us not around our chosen written medium need someone as a print interpreter. We may share the same language as the majority, but the way in which we access printed material differs markedly

Alyssa Hopfe continues and note the bolded words....

Let's review the major points though. I believe we are a culture because: Many of us share a 'written' language, or at the very least, the need to have an alternative method of accessing materials.

We share linguistic traits unique to the blind.

We are a minority symbolically identified as being unique among those around us.

We are linked by the attitudes of those around us and by the problems we face.

A number of us live in similar economic conditions.

We form groups to further the aims of the whole.

We share some methods of understanding our world and we sometimes share mannerisms.

We share internal conflicts alien to the larger community.

We are intrinsically linked by the concerns that we have.

Now for the benefits of recognizing our status as a culture rather than just a group or community. People would begin to see blindness as a characteristic rather than a problem to be solved. People wouldn't automatically assume that we are hopeless or that we'd sell our souls for sight. Whatever divisions within, discrimination would be met with a powerful response. Our unique ways of gathering information would be seen as cultural traits.

We would develop more pride in ourselves with the knowledge that we were a culture and that our "mannerisms" (some of us have them) were a norm. People would be less apt to say "So and so succeeded DESPITE his blindness" and may even start to see blindness as a component of the success.

Organizations and corporations would be forced to accommodate us as they have the deaf (closed captioning for them, audio description for us).

Readers would be bound by an official code of ethics. Complete integration or "normalization" wouldn't be one of the goals considered when educating the blind. Medical breakthroughs wouldn't be heralded as "the only true road to equality" and they wouldn't be what we supposedly pine for the most. One of the largest pluses would be that blind people would be hired to work with other blind people as a matter of course and respect for a unique culture. No longer would a sighted person be considered an optimum teacher for a blind person. American Sign Language (ASL) is considered by many to be a complex and beautiful language, whereas Braille is seen as a last resort. This double standard MUST end.

In order to gain respect, and for blindness to be seen in it's proper light, I believe that we need to recognize our special status as a culture and act accordingly. We should hold our heads up and be proud of what we are! Yes, proud.blindness and all. We should call ourselves what we truly are, by virtue of bonds formed by language, experiences and concerns.we are a culture. For those of you who disagree with my stance, I ask that you at least consider the possibility that what I say has merit.

To deny or not recognize blind people as having a Blind culture would be the same as not recognizing Deaf people of their own culture as well. Doing so would be an act of arrogance.

Silence? Don't bet on it.

Ever since the "news" broke out it caught a lot of deaf people's attention and we all know why. I or anybody else do not need to explain why. If you already know the history then there's nothing more to tell. Regardless of a person's background everybody is innocent until proven guilty as I have said before. But ever since the release was announced a few days ago many people were betting whether this person would be humbled by all that experience and be a better person. Most seem to be saying it wouldn't be the case. I wonder what the odds maker at Las Vegas would say? A 10 to 1 odd? A 100 to 1 odd? 10,000 to 1 odd? Never? I guess we'll have to wait and see but according to many people they seem to be saying "keep your money" instead. That is, don't bet on it. Sometimes there is certain but important key event that can be seen as a signal in a person's life. It's up to the person to recognize that and decide which fork in the road to take. But if ego is any indicator then that path will be the same path as before. A path that goes nowhere.

Go NAD!! Turn head and cough....

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If there was ever a football team whose school has an initial N.A.D. they'd be one sorry group when it comes to cheerleading time at their football games. Can you imagine people screaming in the stands, "Go NAD! Go NAD! Go NAD! Goooooooo NAD!" And it'd be even worse with cheerleaders with each of them waving two large pom-poms with round fluffy like balls.  If at this point you are puzzled by the cheers of "Go NAD" then I ain't helping ya! Blame this on Karen Mayes who wrote an earlier tribute to Paotie a few days ago on the whole "Go NAD!" thing.

Now, this brings me back. I think I inspired Paotia with the whole Go NAD thing in 2008 somewhere. I'm pretty danged sure I mentioned "Go NAD!' as a source of his inspiration. Oh, now I remember, it was "Go NADS!!" Started in 2006. Pretty balsy stuff when I tried to start the North America Deaf Strongman Games or "NADS" Games for short, and I had a pretty good line to go with that, too. Just scroll down until you find it.

Go NADS Games! Only those with enough balls can compete!

Indeed. And I think these are the really heavy ones you can't even lift. Might be better to shout, "OMG! My hernia!" Still, balsy stuff at this game had it gone through. Maybe it'd have been better to call it the "Fighting NADS games?" I'm sure I would've sold tickets by the buckets.

But sometimes people have actually said "Go NAD" in support of National Association of the Deaf's letter about the Pepsi commercial brohahahaha involving AGBell. Hey, remember my comedy video about that Pepsi commercial? Though I think it's easier and more fun to say, "Go NAD!" instead of one long boring line "Go National Association of the Deaf!" Ok. Who actually said "Go NAD!"? A few actually.

Here's one.  And another one, a shocking one, too. Another one from the same website rooting "Go, NAD!" Another here, same site. And here, too. Another here in the same site with two simple words (is it supposed to be one word?). Yup, here again. Same site here where even Paotie got into the spirit, too. Bravo! Another one here, same site. And in the same site this one here comes with 8 exclamation points, too. And the last shout out at this site except this one is just way too funny by "M. Creamer" who shouts "Go NAD!"  Lots of spirits, there. Wow. Never saw so many "Go NADs" under one website. Just a bunch of high spirited people shouting out a bunch of "Go NADs" on NAD's own NAD President Blog website which probably makes this a really, really funny thing. Balls of fun, Right?

Not everyone agrees. Some even complained about "Go NAD!" Yet we had many people screaming "Go NAD!" on NAD's own NAD President Blog website. But this one here got right down medically offensive describing in lurid details of the meaning behind "Go NAD!". Ok. Maybe not so lurid then. And yet somebody actually believed that shouting "Go NAD!" damages the Deaf community. Maybe it would've been better to shout out "Go NADS games!" instead?

Anyway, go NAD!

Video: Matt Hamill and daughter at school

A special "show -n- tell" for Matt Hamill's daughter at her school by bringing her father to school.

His daughter Tierra talked about what life is like communicating with two deaf parents, and what seeing a movie about her dad's life is like. Together the two taught the class some basic sign language and answered questions.

Tierra says that she wants people to know that while she and her parents communicate differently their life is otherwise just like anyone else's. The first grade classroom is completing a unit on diversity, and a lesson from father daughter team gave them a new perspective.

Matt Hamill may already be an action figure, a character in a video game and a reality  show athlete but he never expected his life to be profiled in a movie due out next month called "Hamill."

Don't forget. Matt Hamill is to fight his former trainer and coach Tito Ortiz on October 23, 2010 in the UFC 121 fight in Anaheim, California.

When a "Deaf community" sucks.........

For some reason people like Dianrez, Patti Durr, DonG, and several more managed to arrive at a conclusion that my goal is to somehow “tar” the Deaf community based on a several of my blog pieces for its “negativity.” Believing that I somehow have a “disdain” for the Deaf community. Is this selective thinking at play here? Rather odd to see this. All of sudden I have a “disdain” for the Deaf community just because I asked some hard questions or posted some strong opinions about a Deaf organization or person in my blogs? Based on my so-called “history” of blogging and the topics that I wrote? How about trying “not impressed” with the Deaf community instead?
It’s one thing to not like someone for its blogging and people are entitled to their opinions but it’s another to think that a blogger is out to “destroy” or “tar” or “hurt” the Deaf community (cue in Deaf Dr. Evil laughter). That sort of thinking, again, hinges in the realm of conspiracy thinking and paranoia. Suspicions can sometime cloud people’s own rationality and judgment. Yet they are free to make their own opinions and judgment just as I am free to do so myself. But all that recent complaining has certainly gotten surreal.

In one of the comments submitted in my blog Shel makes the claim.
In most posts? Shel must’ve been away for too long or don’t even bother to read any of my blogs. I think this here has to do with her having a personal angst with me than about my postings per se. Just guessing here. Not a mind reader. I could be wrong. Perhaps her mind was already made up about me even before she read some of my blogs? Who knows? I've certainly have not made any decisions about Shel's own writings other than she has an opinion and I don't even know her well enough to judge.

“YOU chose to focus on the negative events in this post. In most posts (at least the ones I've read anyway) you often point to the negative. I have not seen you discuss the Deaf community or incidents in a positive light... Must have been offline those times.”

As you can already see I have my own blogging style and I get to choose an issue or topic that interest me. And when I have questions on deaf-related issues I pen them down in my blog and see what readers say. If they want to believe in some conspiratorial plot that I and others are doing, then I certainly cannot help them with their own insanity to even suggest that. Their minds are already made up. Only they can change it, not me.

Now, what do I think about the “Deaf community”? At times I think it’s over-rated and full of it. While in other instances I think the “Deaf community” has its own positive merits for what they are and how the “Deaf community” can be seen as a service to the community at large when it comes to educating the public. But that‘s two-edged sword deal there. There are a lot of camaraderie and friendships but then again there’s a lot of bullshit, too. This is one of them.

At times I see it as one big mess but that’s mostly attributed to their own politicizations and certain narrow-mindedness in their own thinking at times. And sometimes its about being overly-protective, too. But when I give praises or give a positive nod then take that as a rare compliment to take home though not about the “Deaf community.” I have to be impressed first in order to offer positive compliments, enough so that I would write a positive blog piece. I am not thoroughly impressed with the “Deaf community” although there are some positive things that I do see from within but still I‘m not impressed. I am more impressed with individuals and how they set themselves apart from other people which I why I‘ve done lots of interviews of Deaf people (Matt Hamill, Steve Sandy on Dummy Hoy, Greg Gunderson, etc…) or discussed the personal details of Deaf, deaf, and hard of hearing individuals in the positive things they do and their outlook on life. I look for uniqueness in an individual regardless of their hearing loss status or which community they are a part of. I look for unique people that I come across who have taken a challenge in life whether a person is Deaf, deaf, or hard of hearing. I am more impressed on what people think, their philosophies on life, their outlook on life, the challenge they do and so on. I also like humor, intellectual humor that attracts me to other people‘s blogging style or how they express themselves in that manner. I’m a complex person. It takes a lot to impress me but with the right combination of things it might be enough to get me interested. If you’re hurt at this point then you need ask yourself why and re-examine your own thinking.

All this mewling about me “tarring” the Deaf community is erroneous hinged with paranoia. I believe this is reflective of their own inner insecurity over something. If they have strong faith in their own "Deaf community" then there is no need for them to be overly defensive and start accusing people of "tarring" the "Deaf community." But when they do get overly defensive I wonder about their confidence in all this.  I’m not sure exactly what but it’s just a feeling.

They try so hard to get me to seek “approval” about the “Deaf community.” And when they cannot then they can only conclude that I’m against it and I have a disdain for it. Not so. Perhaps they have never considered the fact that I’m simply not impressed with the “Deaf community” in the first place? And since I am person who is hard of hearing that moves between the Deaf, deaf, hard of hearing and hearing fences with ease where I have gained various perspectives and experiences, perhaps this is what making some people angry? I don’t know but it is sure is a complex one.

I don’t bite. I do have an opinion. I am a complex person myself. I am not impressed easily. And I don’t go around “tarring” the Deaf community, either. Although that does not prevent me from having an opinion about certain groups or organizations. I have my own interest and even quirky humor that makes me that unique person. Take that to heart with you.

Below is a short sample list of my 300 entries from January 31, 2008 to September 16, 2010 even though I began blogging in 2004 of which a total of 1568 entries were entered so far. In this year’s entry I’ve penned 160 entries in 242 days. From reading my blog titles you can get the general idea what my topics were. And if an entry topic looks interesting use my Kokonut Pundit search bar located on the left side of my blog and enter the full blog title to get the link and read the contents. Whether it’s “positive” or “negative” is purely an opinion of yours based on your perception from where you sit. I just write what I feel and the topics that interest me. And I don’t need to explain this again, either. The fact is that there are people who don't like my blogs and there are people who do like my blogs. End of story. You can do all the conspiratorial thinking you want if that makes you happy. Just keep the whining to yourself. What now? You're going to complain about my blog title, too?

NOTE: I removed one name, Barb Digi, since it wasn't the correct name I put down as I was thinking of another one I couldn't remember at the time. That's a faux pas on my end. Sorry.
Kokonut Pundit's recent 300 blog pieces:
What is a deaf hero? - September 16, 2010
The Paotie Complex Response
Gears of paranoia
The missing ASLrocks.net video pages...how to find them
An intellectual exercise on "Deaf statistics"
The Deaf Dr. Evil Plot......
My Plan is Working Flawlessly! *rubs hands*
A psychological conundrum
Image of the Deaf community - tainted?
Karma's a bitch?
As a deaf/hh person, where were you when 9/11 happened
Kathy Buckley - a deaf comedianne.
The role of audiologists ab2072
Questioning DBC's hit counter... an illusion?
The hating of Russell Errigo....
Did Fookem & Bug get punk'd?
Oral Deaf Man Criticicizes Other Oral Deaf Man for using his voice ...
Tim Riker, chapter president of CAD, respond to Kokonut Pundit
Use of voice is way, way better than ASL!
Deaf Gally Board of Trustee Used Voice at Gally Graduation!
Why did CAD chapter president use his voice at AB2072 hearing?
Kokonut Pundit - the longest continuously running deaf/hh blog around?
The audiologist's role
Deaf and blind hiker on Appalachian Trail
Northwest Deaf and HH Hikers Get Together
Incredible Hulk Character equals Oppression to Deaf?
White deaf man calls black person an "Uncle Tom"
California Academy of Audiology responds to blog readers‘ comments on AB2072 bill controversy
California Academy of Audiology Official Letter to Mendoza on Opposing AB2072
AB2072 votes officially confirmed
AB2072 Passed!
A Deaf Freeze Flash Mob Proposal.....the 12:12 Flash Mob
AB2072 bill update - ASL support increases
The reality of hearing loss in the U.S. and the AB2072 bill
Round Peg in a Square Hole - "Wrong Street"
More potential ASL support than thought
AB2072 bill - less power to audiologists
Round Peg in a Square Hole Deaf
AB2072 passed. No longer in APPR suspense file.
AB2072 on APPR. Suspense File does not mean "suspended.”
What are the "risks" for ASL option in the AB2072 bill?
AB2072 - risks and benefits for ASL option
Hike to Gotchen Creek Meadows on Mt Adams
Beautiful Mt. Adams
Did a hearing mother exaggerates about her deaf son‘s ability?
Persona non grata
Video: How to promote a positive picture of ASL without attacking
Matt Hamill to fight Tito Ortiz!
Deaf Bilingual Coalition's Unprofessionalism
Enemies of Choices
A family outing at Sunset Falls for day of swimming in river
When technology allows 100% communication access to language anytime
Round Peg in a Square Hole
When deaf people live out in the country
A puzzling irony…..
Giving thanks on what hearing I have left
New technology on captioning and audio at theaters
The limp handshake
How the iPhone 4 and iZ could cost more money for Deaf users
4G and the upcoming era of tiered pricing for data usage and how it could impact Deaf people
Why some deaf people don't like using the video phone
UbiVia press release on first ever Live Mobile Text for Blackberry phones
A politically incestuous relationship?
The Candy exposure.....the meltdown.
UbiVia - Your next live mobile text for deaf, hard of hearing, and hearing Blackberry users
The "everything technology" on communication for everybody
ASL thrives: ISL dies (and gets pushed out of the way)
The Eugenics of Deaf Indian Sign Language and culture through ASL
The Wikipedia Entry
"Deafhood," AFA, and CAD linked as "Extremist Groups“ in Wikipedia?
Commenting Rules in Kokonut Pundit
AB 2072 - passed
AG Bell on AB2072
When anti-AB2072 group uses Nazi labels
The Mysterious Disappearance of "Deaf Dynamic Duo!
A poll: Do you approve AB2072 bill?
Vinton Cerf accepted award from AGBell !
Sock! Pow! It's the Deaf Dynamic Duo!!
A Critical Analysis
Jumping the "deaf hate crime" bandwagon
When a deaf person is mocked for his voice...by another deaf person
Famous deaf talk show radio personality gets married
Tenth anniversary for “Association of Adult Musicians“ with hearing loss
Money donated to "Deafhood? No thanks"
Adversity - a perspective from a deaf/hh person.
Facebook "Deafhood? No thanks" membership soars!
Part II Mike's ASL Vlog to the Deaf Community
Kokonut Pundit's ASL video message to Deaf community
Deaf Weekly Explodes!
Very Special People Hate Crime
A response to DeafASLVlogs
A response to The Deaf Sherlock
Communication Technology - the ultimate aphrodisiac
The new army of "Deafhood? No Thanks"
Google Posts Deafhood Warning on Search Site
Deaf Hate Crime - abusing the word.
Deafhood? No Thanks.
Are you a UbiDuo user? Want a chance to win $1000?
Hypocrisy in Six Flags' Deaf Awareness Day?
F*ck you, Deaf Community!
The timeline predictions on the cure for hearing loss
Avdism
Our old house in New Mexico
"Not 'terp' enough" - when interpreters discriminate and demean lower ranking learners
Newly revamped UbiDuo Website
Matt Hamill to fight Keith Jardine
Deaf man found as a direct descendant of the father of Pocahontas
How to describe piano ragtime to a deaf person
The value of work encounters for deaf and hard of hearing people
Deaf pianist to attend Scott Joplin Ragtime Festival
Thumbs of Fury.... the fastest deaf Blackberry text user?
Do I support the Closed Captioning bill HR 3101?
Texting and Carpal Tunnel Syndrome...a danger to deaf people?
Closed Captioning support for Blackberry Phones
Do deaf and hard of hearing people prefer Blackberry smartphones over others?
Blackberry Smartphones and Closed Captioning
When a piano dies...horribly.
A deaf Ragtime pianist plays "Weeping Willow"
What would deaf people like to see in a cell phone? ...
How valuable is communication?
Breaking: Deaf Hate Speech Found
Video: Dr. I. King Jordan on diversity and inclusion.
"I Hope Deafhood Fails"
Baby born deaf, Deaf members celebrate; Baby born without eyes Deaf people show pity
The Gallaudet University Global Warming Scare Video Library
When global warming hoax kills...and fools millions
What to say to a deaf person whose child passed away?
The dangers of using Wikipedia to look up the word “audism“
Why the word "audism" ought to be banned
Special Ed teacher at Birney school shot and killed
Deaf on deaf hate crime?
Al Gore to be investigated for misleading/lying in Congress on Global Warming claim?
What to look for in a successful deaf-owned
Why do you like to read Kokonut Pundit blog? A thanks to readers
Make cure for hearing loss mandatory by law for deaf babies if stem cell prove successful?
Kobayashi Maru and
A Poll: Has your hearing aid helped improve your love or social life?
"Deaf group attacks stem cell researcher for his work on the cure deafness“
Promising research continues for cure on hearing loss
Researchers identify protein needed to develop auditory neurons
Growing an Ear Where No Ear Has Grown Before
Noise-Damaged Hair Cells Can Regrow Stereocilia in Mammals if Rescued in Time.
Creighton professor strives to reverse hearing loss
Is Mike McConnell anti-deaf?
Deaf prisoner on death row finally dies
Idiot deaf driver steals car and dies in fireball after chase.
DBC's credibility gap?
The NFL Cochlear Implant Story Continues...
Dying or Dead Deaf/HH Blogs and beyond Resurrection
Conducive environment on the campus of Gallaudet University? ...
Kokonut Pundit on Cox and Forkum Blog
Super tall buildings of the future
EMPOWERMENT IN THE DEAF COMMUNITY:ANALYZING THE POSTS OF INTERNET WEBLOGS
Mayor Bloomberg's hearing aid help increase awareness
Deaf girl cochlear implant wins NFL Contest uses her voice…Deaf man whines
The day DeafDC died.......happy hour, too.
Proteins found to help develop auditory neurons
Are deaf people more prone to believe in global warming claims?
Mowl and Tropp Plead Guilty to Fraud...will others follow?
Adult stem cells from adipose tissue accidentally improves hearing in one patient
Stem cells on hearing loss for returning soldiers
UbiDuo helps those who are unable to write
Could your own stem cells in your hair follicles help you hear someday?
How the UbiDuo could enhance your career
UFC Matt Hamill vs. Jon Jones at Las Vegas December 5
Dr. Rivolta on stem cells cure for hearing loss and making hearing aids and cochlear implants obsolete someday
David Armand in "Where I Lay my Hat"
Stem Cell Transplantation into the Damaged Mammalian inner ear
Stem Cells for hearing loss live chat tomorrow night, November 19, 2009!
Checkmate?
Will Deaf Culture Die Out Someday? - Part II
Stem cell history on search for cure for hearing loss
Stem cells strategy for hearing loss cure...a captioned video
Blinded by my own hearing
Video Interview (caption) with first American to have her hearing loss restored ...
First Successful Case Example of a Hearing Loss Cure in a Human Patient?
RIT Library Guide References Kokonut Pundit's blog piece
Kokonut Pundit is now on Twitter
Deaf man hears sound of piano for the first time
For the First Time Plays Piano for Deaf Mother
Deaf and Blind Kid Plays Jazz Piano
The Errigo and Aguilar Mess
Closed Captioned Video: Rush Limbaugh says Sarah Palin is ready to be President
When the word "Audism" needs to disappear
First case of stem cell treatment on hearing loss on humans?
Is "Deafhood" a new tool for oppression to those who disagree?
Forging Ahead
Ghanans in Africa talk about "too soon" win of Obama‘s Nobel Peace prize win
Cherishing one's own hearing
My Personal Stalker
Scary Obama Halloween Masks and More!
Hearing aid powered by body heat. No more batteries
Captioned Videos of Underprivledged People Receiving their Starkey Hearing Aids
Marlee Matlin Supports "So the World May Hear"
So the world may hear...
Path to cure for sensorineural hearing loss explained
Miracle and Gift of Sound - Deaf Girl with Cochlear Implant Plays the Piano
To criticize Obama is not racist
When a president plays dumb
I don't like Curious George
Tiptoe around the president
Crybabies or overly sensitive people?
Will Deaf Culture Die Out Someday?
Chris Wallace: "Biggest bunch of crybabies in
$415,000,000 Considered for Research Work on Deafness…including a cure
Rush Limbaugh Donates Half Million Dollars to HEI to help Speed up Cure for Hearing
Matt Hamill forced to withdraw from UFC 102 due to knee
Texting while driving = drunk driving
Audism as a crutch excuse?
Alldeaf - the prejudice
Lou Ferrigno - finally, the first non-Deaf star to be on “Dancing with the Stars.”
Alldeaf - the censorship factor?
Famous deaf person loses 82 lbs with successful portion control program
"All wee weed-up"....an accident or not? National legalization of marijuana coming?
"Mulo" - ironic word of the day/week/month/year for current administration
My Plan Continues to Work Flawlessly!
Louisiana Commisson for the Deaf to benefit from noise pollution fines
The Rusting of Deaf Minds
AllDeaf - the mulatto factor.
Deafless in Seattle
KK Ragtime Piano Piece by Kokonut
Deaf man asks if he will get shut out under Obamacare
My first language? English. Thank God!
Deaf/HH Ragtime Pianist Plays a Piece
Matt Hamill in UFC 102 on August 29, Portland, Oregon
Voluntyranny at Gallaudet University?
Gallaudet's Community Service Requirement - a forced, mandatory volunteer program?
All Deaf Are Not Created Equal
Do You Miss Deaf Republicans 2008 blog?
Empty Suit, Empty Promises, Lotta Strings
Obama Day?
Just when you thought you won the lottery...
Obama's New Youth Corp Requirement?
Gallaudet Declining
Atlanta Braves Baseball Donates Money to AVT
Cure for Hearing Loss One Step Closer....
Governor Palin signs "Thank You" at end of RNC
Its....Governor Palin for Veep!
Imagine...no deaf babies.
Deafness Cure One Step Closer.....
News! First Deaf Baby Naturally Cured of Hearing Loss
When a Picture Says a Thousand Words
Matt Hamill vs Rich Franklin
400,000 Hits! A New Milestone
In Praise of the CODA Brothers
Professional Motocross Deaf Gal Shreds Dirt
A Video Interview with Greg Gunderson
Woman Victim Uses UbiDuo
Informed Decision....would you accept and support a parent’s decision?
Paranoia, Emotional Baggage, Zealotry, Cult Followers….in no particular order.
Fire and Smoke
A Champion of Oralists?
Deaf Nirvana
Deafhoodism Voodoo
DBC in Violation of IRS Charitable Contribution Law?
Interview with President of AGBell
sComm's Fresh New Website!
Ball and Chain
C.I.s and Hearing Aids Illegal in Denver 2009 Deaf Golf Tournament
Forcing the hand or not?
A Message from the Late Deafened and Deaf/HH Community
NAD Does Not Care for Deaf People?
Free Translation and Captioning Service for ASL Vloggers?
Hypocrisy? Double Standards? You be the judge
My response to Mishka Zena
Adversity or Using Your Deafness as a Crutch?
Deaf Children Can Learn to Talk
Equal Access – When a Village
The Achilles Heel - Saying What They Mean
Deaf America Syndrome
Rabid Squirrel Killed by A-Team
A one time opportunity….don’t blow it
M-I-C-K-E-Y....M-O-U-S-E......time to say goodbye
Separating Facts From Fantasy
The Economics of Deafness and Cochlear Implants
The Value of Cued Speech
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When Technology Produces a Shift in Communication Model Thinking
When an Idiot Suggests Prank Calls Using IP
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Dissing those who choose
The Oppression Game
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Japanese Sign Language
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No Subtitles for Patty
"The Forest" by Jason Stewart
The Advantages of Subtitles on
May The Schwartz Be With You!
My Decision on Signing
Boycott the World!
GoAmerica and AGBell….my musings.
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Pepsi Made Clear When Bob’s House Will Come On
Uncle Bob’s House - a video by Kokonut Pundit.
Hearing Actors Play the Role of Deaf Characters
Mike’s First Video Blog
What are Deafread Plans for the next conference? - January 31, 2008

What is a deaf hero?

You know, people visit their favorite forum for a reason. Some visit ASLrocks while others visit DVTV. But to call a person a "hero" for being on a forum is, well, very tacky if not totally inappropriate. Especially if a person is known to have done slanderous and injurious gossipings, or just being crude and nasty.

There are several things or reasons why people go on to these video forums. Number one reason is probably for the mindless gossiping, libeling, defaming and complaining hoping that somebody will notice the flailing arms. You know, just trashy stuff hoping to get noticed. Number two is to learn new things from people who have the knowledge. Something that's purely informative and helpful. Number three is the more educational on the social level on what's going on out there in the world of who's who. Number four is for the simple entertainment value that probably comes with a message. That's pretty much the gist of it, I think. There could be a few more.

But don't call a person a "hero" just because of the number of hits a person was able to help generate. Saying that is an act of pure selfishness. I have my own definition of what a hero is like and it has to do with selflessness, caring, sacrificial and enduring. Base it on the content of person's character, not about  the ability to have a potty mouth. Not about gossiping. Not about smearing and libeling. Not about defamation and other petty actions. Those things do not make a person a "hero." What those thing produce altogether is a monster. Something that people should already have learned to avoid but can't avoid like some trashy tabloid sitting in a magazine rack at a grocery store waiting for somebody to pick it up and buy it.

To be a "hero" has a much more deeper revelation that is to be appreciated and wondered. I'm not a "hero." Neither is Barry of The Holism. Or anybody else who run their blogs and vlogs out there. We are simply people who have various passions for life. If people come and read your blogs or watch your vlogs then they have a reason for coming. So, please, save the "hero" label for somebody who really deserves it.

The Paotie Complex Response

Intellectual Humor. Especially when it's a dry or wry humor that comes with an intellectual twist makes it even more funny. If you ever listened to Steven Wright's dead-pan comedy skits then you'd might understand how that works when it comes to wry humor. A way of playing with words that many people find riotously funny. Like my own joke I made up a few years ago, "Why do they call it “manual alphabet”? Is it labor intensive or what?" Just not what you say but how the delivery of that joke is made is just as important when it comes to humor.

People generally like humor but not all humors are made equally. And not all humors are humorous to all people, generally so. Just humor me for a moment here. I like people with intellectual humor along with a good philosophy about themselves and about life. Just as I liked some of Barry's own philosophy, outlook on life and his love for nature in his The Holism blog. He find his own brand of humor that suits him and anything that tickles his funny bone just like the rest of us. Though I'm pretty sure he's a fan of the Monopoly game just as I am although I would win. But for Barry he's certainly not of the "Napoleon Complex" variety seeking control as some people would try and say. Rather I see him seeking equilibrium in life more than anything else. He's more grounded than most people would give him credit for. But to say "Napoleon Complex" is regarded as a derogatory social stereotype. An expresssion meant to be personally mean and petty. People who say those things for that just purpose might want to look into their own mirror the next time.

Now, this brings me to this complex condition called, "Paotie Complex Response." It is definitely a knee-jerk response condition. It is an automatic reflex. Sometimes it's a gag type reflex for some people while for others it's like eating succulent Kobe steak. Yummmm. A "Paotie Complex Response" might sound really bad if you're already a paranoid person but then again to be diagnosed with PCR might proved curative and rejuvenating for the more enlightened people. Which condition of PCR do you have?

First and foremost, what or who is Paotie? Easy, he's the guy behind the green curtain hitting the control buttons and levers while saying "Gawwwrsh!" in a deep, trembling voice. No. Just kidding. Really, who is he? Well, I...don't know. He's just....well.... Paotie. You know. Just...Paotie. That guy with the green moldy couch thingy on his blogsite with a bunch of stale crumbly stuff underneath the cushions. You have to read his old blog pieces in order to understand the humor and the intellect this guy brings to the table. And when he writes a piece, the paranoid, er, upset people usually come out of the woodworks and react irrationally to his writings. Things like.... well, you probably can already imagine it. It ain't pretty!

Because of that some 3 years ago I (and many others) recognized the fact that some people were willing to squelch other people's blogging style on what they should or should not write just because they disagree or don't like? Thin skin anybody?

But to promote or instigate for the limitations on the free exchanges of ideas and concepts just because people happen to not like what’s being discussed sets a dangerous precedence.

Indeed it would set a dangerous precedent. Although by saying "Gawwrsh!" in a humorous way is certainly not harmful. Kicking a stone in mock disappointment is a harmless thing. Saying "DBC sucks!" should not trigger an apoplectic fit except for the most criminally insane people who don't bother to look before leaping. Or by giving an alternative meaning to "deficit thinking" as oppose to those who say it is more about people who do not properly speak of Deaf culture do they get supremely upset when people are told it's really double speak to mean “not Deaf enough." Even that shouldn't be justification to somehow censure the blogger.

Today, even speaking remotely "negatively" on anything Deaf related is almost criminal..... to some of them that is. Not all of them but some of them. Of course, all this is a bit of humorous hyperbole and a stretch there but you get my drift. Yada yada yada. But having an opinion contrary to what other Deaf people say isn't about hating the Deaf community. It's about.... surprise.... having an opinion. And when humor is employed in the whole scheme of things to make a point do some people get all "Deaf-uppity" (word is copyrighted by this blog owner, please send check or cash for literary license use of the word) or, to move toward to a more politically correct word, really, really uptight. So tight the spincter actually disappears inward which will take a proctologist days to find. Spelunking would take on a new meaning here.

Either you have a good case of PCR or you have a bad one. Make the best of your funny bone. Just don't go all freaky on us and fall apart like some zombies. We, "alternative bloggers," do have valid opinions. Just not the mindless ones.....(that was supposed to be a zombie joke...you can laugh now).