Thursday, October 07, 2010

My mother....My hero.

Last night I was going through my garage and found what I was looking for. My stuff when I was just a toddler up to a young boy with pictures, report cards, John Tracy Clinic letters, my stories I've written while in the 3rd and 4th grade, my old hearing aids with one of it a box (chest) hearing aid, a couple of pro-oral bumper stickers, Birney School information, drawings, a Washington state champion soccer patch in 1975 the team I was on, a wrestling letter congratulating my wins, and so on. Lot of it deaf related stuff along with my history of my childhood that I am collecting for later research and organization.

I sat down and read a few of the several John Tracy Clinic letters written to my mother (and father) when she took up John Tracy Clinic's correspondence kit when I was around two years old which helped me on my way to a better oral-aural development only after when I received my hearing aid. Those letters were very positive, encouraging and informative. In fact, my mother was so inspired, encouraged, and determined to help me where I've improved so much that I was placed at Birney School's oral program before age 3. And by grade 2 in a school report card from Birney School saying I was ready for public school (with a deaf teacher for supplemental support) for the 3rd grade. And then finally I was placed in a regular public school in the 4th grade and stayed in the public school system until I graduated at age 18.

You would think that I had a miserable time as a deaf/hh boy growing up with a box hearing aid but I didn't. I had fun, enjoyed my hearing aid and the sound I was able to pick up, and had both deaf and hearing friends. In fact, I drew a picture when I was 8 showing me and my friends playing on playground set. You can see in the drawing I included my box hearing aid with me smiling while swinging on a swing and with the sun smiling in the background and wind blowing while kids wore long stocking caps (which means it must've been around fall/winter time when I drew that). All good times with a few rough spots in between but that picture epitomizes my childhood time.

My mother is my hero. She's the one who rescued me, loved me and nurtured me into who I am today. I love my mother. And she knows that but I want to say that here for all to see.  Everyday is Mother's Day to me because what I do today was because of her love and dedication.

In the coming days and weeks here I will reveal letters, pictures, my personal stories and a bit of history about myself in my blog as a deaf/hh person growing up learning how to speak while I had auditory training at the same time with my hearing aid. Because oralism, when done right, does work. And to ensure its success, early intervention is the key.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

really, would you be angry at your mother if she added ASl to your life?

Karen Mayes said...

Awww... that's nice. I hope my children will be very thankful for having me as their mother when they are adults. I am very thankful for having my father, we are very close even today. My mother passed away almost 2 decades ago.

Karen Mayes said...

I like your drawing... I chuckled at the sight of the frowning cloud blowing.

Mike said...

Really, anony 12:28?

Angry? Not likely but I wouldn't really know since I have not experienced any early signing (except some rudimentary home signs). She'd probably be the type to include signing like SEE. It's still a visual communication combining a language.

Anonymous said...

I've always saved all the art and writing projects that my kids made from school. My kids will eventually thank me for saving all of their projects. They are all very special gifts.

I read John Egbert's blog, "My Special Thanks To My Mother About Gallaudet." I laughed because he tried to compete with you on the numbers of the viewers through the deafread. So I thought it's funny. There's a but. I know your writing skills are a w-a-a-a-y better than him. Psst, I admit that your writing skills are much better than mine! ;-)

White Ghost

Anonymous said...

White Ghost, you can thank his John's oral upbringing. The very thing that Mike praise about.

Beside, Mike have more hearing than John and I do (we both were raised oral only, 90's db level in both ears since birth, wore hearing aids)

Mike said...

WG, yeah, I saw that. I can imagine his surprise seeing my blog and then make a mad dash to his computer and banged out his own ode to his mother blog piece. Glad I was an inspiration for him to think of doing that. I guess I should be flattered by his imitation effort?

I have a very good relationship with my mother. Almost every week we both call each other up on our phone and talk for quite awhile. That is by listening and speaking. But keep an eye on my blog, more to come as I said so in my blog. Many more.

Dianrez said...

Nice to honor your mother for knowing the right prescription for you and you only. You have had the good fortune to have usable hearing, too, and that makes a marked difference.

Let's not forget the substantial number of Deaf people who have little or no usable hearing for speech, even with aids and CI's due to other problems.

Moms with the right information and realistic expectations can work out the right combination of tools for their kid.

Anonymous said...

there can be no greater reward for a mother than to have her children recognize and thank her for all that she has done for them, regardless of communication options. and thank her at every opportunities. I don't know very many women who have not made great personal sacrifices for love and well-being of their kids. Children don't come with an instruction manual so moms have to figure it out as they go along in life. You and your mom were lucky JTC were there for you. I hope other families can be as fortunate as yours - regardless of communication option. God bless your mom!
anonymous 456

Candy said...

:)

Liked that picture you drew!

I can relate...

The only hero in my life is my mom. If you look in my FB Note page, there is a tribute to my mom, who has been gone for a while.

kim said...

That was a cute picture Mike and I especially liked the clouds blowing wind your way, so you could swing. You must have been a creative, happy child. You know. . . after raising three kids to adulthood, I honestly believe all any kid needs is love-- and they will grow and flourish into the people they are meant to be regardless of hearing ability. We moms tend to stress and second guess whether we're doing right. I have always said my kids have turned out well despite my mistakes, not because of anything I did-- but they will tell you I deserve all the credit. I believe the truth is somewhere in between and love made it work.