Deaf student picked for flight program

It's not often you get to see stories about deaf people becoming airplane pilots. Well, Jason Jernigan is taking up that challenge to become one of the many deaf and hard of hearing pilots in the U.S.

Florida State University Panama City senior Jason Jernigan will undertake five weeks of flight training at Purdue University in Indiana to show that his deafness is not a handicap.

Jernigan, of Youngstown, is the second deaf person to train with Able Flight to learn flight and ground operations. He is one of six men who have been chosen from across the country to win a scholarship for the third year of Able Flight-Purdue University flight training.

“I want to fly because it is one of my life goals,” Jernigan wrote in an email interview. “I really never thought I would get the opportunity. I want to conquer the challenge. I also want to show people that deaf people can do anything a hearing person can do.”

Well who doesn't want to learn how to fly an airplane? If you're up to the task, why not? Ask Stephen Hopson who made aviation history by becoming the world’s first deaf pilot to earn an instrument rating, which actually requires the use of a radio when flying though inclement weather.

Jernigan will leave Florida on Saturday for the program. He has no prior flight experience, but he has played a flying computer game. He believes the biggest challenge will be communications between him and his instructors.

“I will use sign language, iPad, a computer and UbiDuo machine,” Jernigan wrote. “Mostly I will use an UbiDuo (communications device). … [I]t should help greatly with both my pre-flight and post-flight briefing with my instructor.”

The university will benefit from expanding their training to include people with disabilities, according to Charles Stites, the executive director of Able Flight.

Good luck, Jason. Hope the skies will be friendly for ya!

Bad Advertisement during Tax Season

I drove through a town and saw this and took a picture of it when I noticed the building was empty. You can probably guess why. It's enough to make you not go in when tax season cometh. Why take the chance?

The mocking of dea(th)f...

One of the worst thing one can do is to air online in a vlog or blog the apparent glee or dispassionate display of somebody else's death who is related to a deaf person known in the deaf and hard of hearing community.  Either show a modicum of respect in your blog or vlog or don't talk about it at all.  By showing disrespect online makes that person a boorish and dispassionate soul. If it's indifference then keep it to yourself privately and away from the public view. By making it public ranks (almost) right up there on wishing the death of a deaf parent's child just because one doesn't like the deaf parent reeks of insanity.

A Dine and Sign TV Internet Show

Here's an interesting and fun show to watch called "Dine and Sign." A humorous show between a hearing son named Alex and his deaf father having some insightful and funny discussions done in sign language. There are now 35 episodes or almost 3 hours worth of shows beginning on September 26, 2011 broadcasted by Podsmiths Internet Televsion on YouTube. Since then the show has slowly gained a following.  If you want to talk and interact with the Dine and Sign please visit their Facebook page.

What makes this show fun and easy to watch is the accessibility they provide. Each show comes with captioning, signing, and a voice-over for each of the two father and son duo sparring lightheartedly with each other over a variety of topics. With a combination of communication access available it can reach a much broader audience than just the signing community. If you ever want to see what the interaction is like between a deaf father and hearing son then come and watch their first episode and catch up with the rest of their shows at your convenience. Dine and Sign, not exactly a three course meal but satisfying.


Episode one: What's the problem with long hair?

Deaf pitcher aims for pro baseball

It is not everyday you get to hear of a deaf pitcher who can pitch 90 mph fastballs and have a good chance getting into the major leagues. Scouts are certainly taking a hard look at him.

Technology is king for deaf users when it comes to communication

Technology is the key to success for deaf and hard of hearing people. It is true today and it will be more so true into the very near future when it comes to helping provide communication to deaf and hard of hearing with the rest of the world. Google has come out with a new fangled technology that has been in the works for some years called Google Glasses where it hints at speech-to-text display for deaf users:

Perhaps most interestingly, one patent shows Google is working on a system to help hard-of-hearing and deaf users detect and interpret nearby sounds. The glasses' heads-up display would show arrows and flashing lights to indicate the direction and intensity level of the sound, and even display the words nearby people are speaking. The patent, #8,183,997, was issued to Google today and is titled "Displaying sound indications on a wearable computing system." The system would integrate a speech-to-text feature that determines the text of speech and displays it for the wearer of the glasses.

This concept on augmented reality will be a boon to deaf and hard of hearing users in the near future by allowing the extra-dimension of space, time and information of sound and visuals through the use of these glasses.

Lou Ferrigno gets Envoy Esteem hearing implant

I was watching the last episode of Celebrity Apprentice when Lou Ferrigno announced during the live show that he can now hear better with his new Esteem implantable hearing device.

Lou Ferrigno, the actor who played the Hulk on the 1970s TV show "The Incredible Hulk," has begun using an implantable hearing aid from Minnesota's Envoy Medical Corp. Ferrigno, who's had hearing problems since he was young, said last weekend on the finale of Celebrity Apprentice (he was fired in April) that he received the Esteem medical implant, made by White Bear Lake-based Envoy.

In fact, this was successfully kept underwraps until Medical Envoy released a press release yesterday, the day after the show that was aired on Sunday, about Lou and his new implant and successful it was that Lou even cried once it was activated.

Profoundly hard of hearing since two years old, Lou Ferrigno revealed last night on The Celebrity Apprentice that he recently underwent a surgical procedure to restore his hearing, with the Esteem® Device, manufactured by Envoy Medical Corporation. The device is a fully implantable prosthetic cochlea stimulator, designed to do just that. It has no microphones or speakers. It is invisible. Except that Lou knows it was implanted, he has no sense of it being in his body. But he can hear. And according to Lou Ferrigno, it "is a miracle." "Lou's dream has always been to hear like everyone else," said Carla, his wife of 32 years, who encouraged Lou to have the procedure. Now, Lou says he has "natural hearing and can hear things he has never heard before or could have ever hoped to hear." Birds chirping, rain on his roof, his alarm clock in the morning (scares the heck out of him, he says laughing) the tiniest sounds of his fingers moving together, the refrigerator's quiet motor, but most importantly, the ability to hear people in everyday conversation, even in a noisy environment, like a restaurant. "Everything is so loud and so clear," says the actor, who is still trying to figure out certain, never before heard sounds. Ferrigno said he "can't wait to get his second ear done,"

The device was implanted by Dr. Michael Murray of San Jose CA, who has performed hundreds of Esteem® procedures and is booked through September. Lou Ferrigno's surgery was performed in Houston, Texas at Envoy Medical's private ("decadent," according to Murray) surgical center. The entire procedure costs approximately $37,000 for the device and the surgery, and according to Ferrigno, "is worth a lot more." Approved in a 15 to 0 unanimous, independent panel vote by the FDA, the Esteem® is indicated for moderate to severe hearing loss, in people with sensorineural hearing loss (about 85% of all hearing loss sufferers). It replaces conventional hearing aids for those who qualify. The Esteem® Device is also approved by the VA (Veterans Administration) for those who qualify and have it prescribed by their VA audiologist and ENT specialist.

The device works by leveraging the natural anatomy of a person's own body. Sound enters the ear naturally. The natural vibrations of the eardrum are sensed and sent to a microprocessor implanted under the skin behind the ear. The vibrations are intensified and sent to the cochlea via the stapes. The tiny remaining hair cells in the cochlea pick up the vibrations and send them to the brain where they are interpreted as sound. The result, according to the successful recipients, including Lou Ferrigno, is beyond anything a hearing aid can offer. Ferrigno is still amazed at how well it works. "No more hearing aids for me," Lou Ferrigno exclaims with a huge smile on his face. Tears fell from his eyes upon activation. Ferrigno, dumbfounded, said "he was advised by his audiologist not to have the procedure." "Go Figure?" said Ferrigno. Lou said he "hasn't felt this good since he won the Mr. Universe competition."

This is great for Lou. I'm sure he's happy with it as you can see.....just like Sarah Churman.

Bullying

Fortunately I have not been a victim of bullying since I don't see myself as a victim in the first place. Rather I see the perpetrator as someone who wants attention in the effort to raise his or her self-esteem by targeting certain people with their rants and hate. For years as a blogger I've been a target of bullying-tactics by a few deaf people who have graced my blogsite of time's past. The same people who have attacked those commenting in my blog comment box and used profane language against them. Ultimately I was forced to ban them from my blogsite after warning them to cease against attacking people who leave comments in my blog. Even that didn't always work because they usually find a way to continue with the attacking and bullying. But in my own wisdom I've learned to ignore those people who insist on finding ways to target me.

What prompted me to blog about this was because of an article I read on the psychology of bullying asking an interesting question, "Bullies Have Low Self-Esteem Or High Self-Esteem?"

But current research shows that most bullies actually have high self-esteem. Bullies usually have a sense of entitlement and a feeling of superiority over others, and lack compassion, impulse control and social skills. They enjoy being cruel to others and sometimes use bullying as an anger management tool, the way a normally angry person would punch a pillow. Research does support the fact that bullies have low empathy and don’t know how it feels to be in someone else’s shoes.

I never realize that a person who bully sometimes uses it as an anger management tool. That one surprised me but I certainly understand that such attitudes and actions give them the feeling of superiority over others and enjoy being cruel to them in a variety of ways over the internet.  Such cruelties include name calling, put downs, smearing, lying or going after their families or spouses by targeting them in order to get to his/her main target.

More on bullying....

As long as bullies are able to manipulate another person or a situation, their self-esteem goes up. Once bullies lose control of their victim, or realize that they can’t manipulate situations to their liking, their self-esteem goes down. This causes them to look for new victims to manipulate and control so that their self-esteem can go up again. The bullying in itself almost becomes an emotional fix that bullies need in order to feel good about themselves.

Which is why it's important to ignore certain bullies for their bullying tactics because by doing so you are not giving them any opportunity for control or the opportunity to try and manipulate you.  If you can do this  try and block the person from your blog, YouTube, Facebook or anywhere else. The bullies I've come across in the past I see them almost as the equivalent of a druggie who seeks emotional fixes in order to get that same "high." It's almost a description of  stalker looking for his/her next fix.

If you come across a bully, do not try and engage with a bully. Best weapon is to put that online bully on ignore. Or, if you can, try and ban that person. That's what I did and I was able to take that control away from the few bullies who knew no better. It takes confidence to wrest control away from an online bully by the mere simple act of ignoring the bully in the first place. You have that power.

Video of deaf film maker on deaf role models from across the pond

Deaf Echo Attack Website?

This just happened not too long ago and it concerns me a great deal regarding the security and protection for my laptop when I attempted to access Deaf Echo's website and got this warning:

I'm not sure exactly what's going on over there and people should be made aware of this. I have visited the Deaf Echo numerous times yet this Attack Page warning pop up concerned me greatly. I'm not sure what to do at this point whether to continue on or not. The Safe Browsing Client by Google in the Safe Browsing diagnostic page explains why the warning was put up.

Some of you might be wondering if this blog is a malicious blog piece aimed at the owner despite our differences. Hardly the case when I'm given the Safe Browsing diagnostic page on explaining the warning. I'm sure the owner is not aware that there might be some programs installed on his Deaf Echo community blogsite that may not be healthy for computer laptops of those visiting their website. The owner will need to rectify this problem on his own accord. Once the problem is corrected I will provide an update. I sure do like to visit Deaf Echo again.

Any computer nerds out there that can add to this piece of warning info? This is the first time a warning like this has ever happened.

UPDATE: The Google search page for "Deaf Echo" has put out a warning, too. The owner of the Deaf Echo website needs to correct whatever is causing that problem quickly.

UPDATE II:  Looks like whatever caused the warning has now been corrected.

First typewriter invention for the deaf?

There's no mention whether Pastor Rasmus Hans Johan Malling-Hansen's invention on one of the first typewriter (and perhaps the best looking and most beautiful piece of typewriter machinery of all time) produced was inspired to invent this because of his association with deaf people in Denmark.  A way to "write faster" and communicate quicker with deaf people.  I bring that up since he was the minister and principal at the Royal Institute for the Deaf-mutes in Copenhagen and that he excelled as a reformer in his field, education for the deaf and deaf-mutes.

RMH was the driving force behind the development of education for the deaf-mutes in Denmark, particularly in terms of the organizational set up and the formulation of comprehensive goals. In cooperation with Johan Keller he managed to introduce a reform in 1867, whereby the pupils were grouped according to their learning abilities and degree of hearing loss, such that they would all benefit from the kind of education and methods that were best adapted to their situation. He was behind the establishment of the institute in Fredericia in 1881 and was the driving force in the public commission of 1888, whose proposals were accepted and turned into reality after his death: The government took over the private institutes, a new institute was established in Nyborg, and all the schools for the deaf and deaf-mutes were integrated into one general organization and plan. Fredericia was selected as a pre-school at which all deaf-mutes must stay for a year in order for the teachers to assess their individual abilities and needs, before they would gain entrance to the school or institution, whose methods could cater for their specific needs and abilities in the best possible way. RMH's modern and far-sighted vision became a reality! This was well known in Scandinavia as "the Danish division (selection)" and became highly influential in the other Nordic countries.

A description about Rasmus Hans' typewriter and the first invention of the writing ball:

The writing ball was not only the first typewriter to be produced and sold in a relatively large quantity, it is also the fastest typewriter ever made, because of the unique construction of the "ball". Malling-Hansen was experimenting with the placement of the letters already in 1865 - and he succeeded in finding a placement of the letters that made the writing speed extremely fast. Not many people know that the traditional qwerty-keyboard was designed with the goal of preventing the arms from "hanging up" in each other, and in no way was designed to get the fastest writing speed - on the contrary!

I'm surmising at this point whether his typewriter and writing ball invention which was finally patented in 1870 and "mass produced" beginning in 1872 was a subconscious effort on finding ways to communicate faster and better with deaf people rather than by pen and paper. Or perhaps it was a conscious effort of his on finding ways to educate deaf people through the use of his "extremely fast" typewriter even though nothing is documented to say that was the case.  The timing of his typewriter invention occurred during a period while he was the minister and principal at the Royal Institute for the Deaf-mutes in Copenhagen and the fact that he excelled as a reformer in his field, education for the deaf and deaf-mutes would appear suspect as perhaps his primary reason to invent his typewriter was partly because of his association of all things with deaf people.

Now, if you ask me, Rasmus Hans Johan Malling-Hansen's typewriter certainly look quite steampunk to me. Quite a gorgeous piece. There are plenty of steampunk typewriters today. Perhaps the Malling-Hansen's typewriter could be put into a collection of all things steampunk deaf? 

Steampunk Deaf

Not much in the genre of steampunk of things related to deaf or hard of hearing people other than certain steampunk type of technology like a hearing aid seen in one of the steampunk blogs.

If you remember watching the movie Wild, Wild West with Will Smith and Kevin Kline you will see it has all of the element of steampunk feel to it. And then you may remember McGrath "Bloodbath"
who wore a retro looking "hearing aid" which was retro of that era, anyway.

Here's another true to its form steampunk hearing aid.

Of course, you then have steampunk hands of large proportion and I wonder if a deaf person could make two fully articulating hands of enormous size would he be able to sign with them? Boggles the mind if somebody could do that, steampunk style that is.

Here's a truly big hand.

And this one, too.

Deaf forester instructs on how to get pine cones

Here's Andy, again, a deaf silviculturist (see previous blog of him signing a story about Smokey Bear to deaf kids) who gives an instructional video about preparing for a tree climb and how to get fresh pine cones safely while working on the Coconino National Forest in Arizona. How often do you get to see a deaf forester do an instructional video on tree climbing? Pretty neat, I'd say.

Deaf forester signs to deaf kids on Smokey Bear story

Here's a deaf silviculturist who works for the U.S. Forest Service signs a story about Smokey Bear to a group of deaf kids. And the kids get a surprise visit at the end of the story.

He is one of the many deaf/hh employees who works for the U.S. Forest Service. Not often do deaf kids get exposed to a deaf person who works for the U.S. Forest Service and in full uniform, too. So, this was a great thing that Andy did for the kids that day. And speaking of Smokey Bear, here's my youngest daughter from 10 years ago at a Smokey Bear museum in Capitan, New Mexico which is the birth place of Smokey Bear.

The adventurous life and love story of Mable

Here's an interesting piece of history with a bunch of black and white photos written by the National Geographic. A piece that covers the human side on the life and adventurous times of Mabel Gardiner Hubbard (late deafened at age 5) who was married to Alexander Graham Bell. What sealed the National Geographic relationship with the Bell family was that Mable and Alexander G. Bell had two daughters together named Elsie and Daisy where Elsie grew up and married Gilbert Hovey Grosvenor who was National Geographic magazine’s first editor-in-chief. That solidified the family ties with the National Geographic company.

Gallaudet University's Rock Festival 2002

Rock Festival as it is known at Gallaudet University has been around quite awhile for well over twenty years, for me that is but this year is their 40th anniversary. If you have been at Gallaudet University long enough chances are you attended some of the Rock Festivals there.  In 2002 a hearing band called "Mutaytor" played at Gallaudet University and on their old discontinued website you can see the many pictures of 2,500 Gallaudet students rocking their night away under the thumping, reverberating blast from 6 foot tall speakers. Do you recognize anybody in those pictures? And if you went to a Rock Festival event while as a Gallaudet student, why did you go and did you like the band?  And, yes, that was 10 years ago but don't feel bad. Mine goes further back.

Noah Buchholz's Journey: Part 2 series.

Check out Noah's captioned video series Part 2 about his own communication journey.

Oh gawd...I'm deaf...I'm hoh.....

Watch this captioned video. It's great! A deaf/hh guy from the U.K. talking about deafness...his and other people's...and things in general regarding it. Don't be afraid of who you are and don't let your deafness stop you from doing what you want to do in life.

sComm ships largest order

sComm has made history by delivering its largest order of UbiDuo communication devices to more than 1,250 Social Security Administration (SSA) field offices around the United States.

These communication devices will enable Social Security staff to interact directly and immediately with clients who are deaf or hard of hearing who walk into SSA office for assistance to discuss their SSI/SSDI benefits. Rather than using paper and pen or waiting for a sign language interpreter to arrive, the staff can turn on the UbiDuo and within seconds begin engaging a conversation with the client. This portable communication tool can be carried anywhere within an office, and its self-powered battery provides power when electrical outlets are not available.

The UbiDuo has a full-size keyboard and screen on each half. Communication is instant, with text showing on both halves as soon as it’s typed, there’s no delay like with instant messaging programs.

Its speed and ease-of-use will enable Social Security staff to better meet the needs of its clients who are deaf, hard of hearing, or other communication challenges. For example, clients who can hear but have difficulty speaking because of a tracheotomy or a stroke can use the UbiDuo.

Below are additional photos of UbiDuo communication devices at the sComm warehouse prior to delivery and on day of delivery. Photos are exclusive for Kokonut Pundit blogsite.

sComm is the engineer and manufacturer of the UbiDuo communication device. sComm is a privately-held company in Raytown, MO. The company was founded in 2005. The idea of the UbiDuo was born out of frustration when father and son were trying to interact with each other face-to-face over breakfast at a restaurant. sComm stands for "simultaneous communications." Face-to-Face Communication solution offers fast and direct communication for the Deaf & Hard of Hearing

LOcuTUS Two

Spinning off of the LOcuTUS One blog piece I did recently while today I'll discuss perceived rejection from a community and identity of self.

In one Star Trek:TNG show the Borg collective was able to successfully assimilate Captain Picard into their collective by capturing him and forcing him to become a part of the hive as one mind. He lost all sense of personality and identity where as on the Enterprise ship his identity was with his crew, his life experiences and personality that made all the difference.  A ship filled with diversity of  people like Geordi La Forge who is blind but wears a special visor that helps him see better - a technology of the time that allowed him to see more things than the natural eye ever could. Or Counselor Troi who have telepathic abilities. Or Worf's ability as a fearless warrior? A ship where respect for their fellow crew and passengers is seen regardless of race, experience, upbringings, ethnic and cultural differences, and special abilities or even those lacking normal eyesight when it doesn't matter because technology helped overcome blindness.  But the height of irony came when Captain Picard and crew did the unthinkable by welcoming a Borg ("you will be assimilated") named Hugh to come and stay on the Enterprise ship should he decide to do so. Even at the risk of losing the Enterprise when the Borg ship comes looking for Hugh. There were no rejection of Hugh near the end of that episode because the crew on the Enterprise ship finally understood Hugh by getting to know him better once he was disconnected from the Borg hive. He was able to regain some sense of his own humanity, personality and awareness of self to know better about the human race. But in the end Hugh made the decision to return back to the Borg collective for reason not what you might think.

All that reminded me a blog piece I did called "The Solution" about Amy and her experience at rejection and how many people associate with Amy her attempt to communicate in a social setting with a group of signing deaf and hearing people.

I am "Amy," as are about two million other severely hearing impaired walking around… And the abuse we are subject to by the ASL Deafies was so elegantly acted out by none other than an ASL Deafie himself.

But what is interesting is to compare some of the thoughts between an oral and hard of hearing person versus a culturally deaf person regarding the Amy video seen in my "The Solution" blog piece when it came to communicating with other deaf people. Even though Amy made the effort to pick up a few new signs and made an attempt to finger spell her name and picked up a few more signs but was ultimately rejected.

This woman who grew up oral and HOH and appears to have been raised in a non-signing environment responded in the original YouTube video source in the comment section about Amy said this:

I grew up oral and HOH and currently learning ASL. Had this HOH girl a sincere interest in making Deaf ASL friends, she could have at the very least, learned a few signs and bring pen and paper to communicate with both the hearing and the ASL Deaf. This video reinforced what I already knew, being stuck between 2 worlds sucks! I'm rather puzzled this HOH girl still didn't learn to bring pen and paper. Does she want to deliberately make communication harder than it has to be?

Versus Candy who is culturally deaf with culturally deaf parents chimed in another blog about the same video. Candy has a different approach and positive outlook said this:

I happen to know all kinds of deaf/hh folks and when one of them approach me not knowing signs, I do make an effort to involve them, even though they do not know signs. It's rude to be ignoring them and having the mindset that it's too bad they don't know signs. The attitude of those signing deaf folks who treat oral deaf is what hurts the deaf world. I was taught to treat everyone the same and I do. My deaf cultured parents taught me that and they practice the same too.

Typically those that do not want to learn signs would not have made an effort to approach signing deaf people.

Manners is what is lacking among many.

Two different approaches on how to deal with a deaf/hh newcomer to a signing community. Which ones do you think would have had a bigger impact? Candy made a great point seen in the underline bold about those who would approach a group of signing deaf people. Amy would not have made an effort to approach signing deaf people if she didn't want to learn new signs.

And then you have Lotus who is oral and hard of hearing had this to say about the video and more in a discussion forum that took place recently:

Lotus: So, what did you guys think of this video? Personally, I think it makes a compelling argument as to why a hard of hearing person should learn ASL if she wants to integrate into the Deaf community and have the common sense to bring pen and paper if she is struggling to understand what the hearing people are saying. Having grown up oral and HOH, I finally learned that one does not HAVE to remain stuck in between two worlds, that one CAN do something about this and be pro-active about it. They are not doomed to a fate that cannot be changed.

According to one blog by an HOH guy, this video is about how badly HOH people are treated by ASL Deafs even though it's very clear in the video that the Deaf woman tried hard to converse with the HOH girl. In fact, it was the Deaf woman who said hi first. This HOH girl attempts to join an ASL conversation even though she doesn't know the language. The thing is, if two people don't speak the same language, it's rather difficult to hold a conversation. Pretty evident that the HOH blogger harbors negative feelings towards the deaf community, even though he himself also has a hearing problem. I feel sorry for this hearing wanna-be blogger........ One can be deaf and happy although he doesn't seem to think it's possible and that being HOH is a better way to live, even though the video proved that being an oral HOH means being left out of both worlds and it's a miserable place to be in. Have to confess that I was stunned that this HOH blogger seems to think the solution for HOH is to use simcomm where basically you communicate with another person using what looks like a typewriter. yeah, the solution for the deaf/hoh to talk to deaf/hoh is not ASL, it's a cumbersome piece of equipment that looks like a typewriter. Personally, ASL and pen and paper is far far more convenient plus simcomm won't fit in either my back pocket or my evening purse. I'd rather write on a napkin!

Of course, Lotus is talking about me as that "HOH blogger." And she got it wrong about a technological communication solution I often speak of.  But the funny thing is that over the last 24 years I have signed in ASL/PSE and I have never felt rejected by the deaf community because I am in many ways am a part of the deaf/hh community and by convention a part of the hearing community, too. The real problem is the few culturally deaf people who have rejected or not have accepted me for a variety of reasons over something that I have no control of. They are the least of my worries. I have not rejected nor have negative feelings towards the culturally deaf community because I have always recognized their uniqueness and abilities. After all, I did go to Gallaudet University, Lotus did not.

I still interact with both deaf kids and adults and have done so since the days as a student at Gallaudet University since 1988. And it was great yesterday to be with a bunch of deaf kids and their deaf parents helping pull weeds during Earth Day weed round up and help them learn more about the environment. This is one example of many. I think Lotus' confusion and obvious bias rest on the fact that she failed to take the time to know who I am  and instead preferred to make generalized assumptions about myself, wrongly I might add, and what I supposedly believe or how I feel. Instead of assuming, why not ask, Lotus?  My world is not your world, your world is not my world, and I have my own preferences on how and who I want to interact with. I have no desire to make any presumptions about Lotus' own feelings or identity.

I have my own preferences on which culturally deaf people I'd like to be friends with or who I don't mind hanging out with, of course. The same goes with non-signing deaf, hard of hearing and hearing people on who I prefer to be with. I see myself as a hard of hearing person. I also see myself as a deaf person. I wear a hearing aid. I am fluent in sign language. I am fluent in the spoken language and speak effortlessly. I went to Gallaudet University. I like playing ragtime piano. I like listening to talk radio while I drive my truck. I've produced videos in sign language with captioning as part of my signing discussions in DVTV. I am an opinionated person. Yet, I respect other people's opinions rather use ad hominem when some people think it takes the place of an effective argument. I like talking on the phone. I like talking over the video phone. I take advantage of communication technology when I'm at work like real time captioning for video conference meetings or use transcribers at large meetings. I like to talk, listen and be a part of small group of hearing people in a conversation. The same goes for being part of a signing conversation with a group of deaf people as I have done so for more than 24 years. I am comfortable with my identity and who I am. I don't feel "stuck" between two worlds because I enjoy both. I live how I want to live my life. It does not matter if you cannot function at the same level as I can or anybody else. I am happy for who I am and not about what I am. I do not presume what's better for other people to live their lives or be critical of them on how they choose to live their life when it comes to their deafness and the people they associate with. Again, my world is not your world, and vice versa.

As for the supposed limitations there are ways on how a non-signer deaf person could interact with either the hearing or culturally deaf people whether by using pen and paper, sign language, real time captioning, talking and lip-reading, using the hearing aids, cochlear implants or Esteem Envoy implantable hearing device (which is NOT a hearing aid), or using an existing face to face technology that allow communicating in a written language in real time with hearing people. The solutions are many as I've explained many times before for years. Technology has made much of our lives easier when it comes to communication. The real attitude is how you approach a solution that fits you depending on a situation.

The point I made in my earlier blog about the Amy video was about how willing are deaf or hearing people to take the time to have a genuine face to face conversation? Or will they continue to reject others simply because they cannot hear well or do not know sign or have misplaced assumptions about them? The real limitations are those who do not have the patience or take the time to communicate with other people regardless of how it is done and the opportunity to get to know them in person. Candy's example is a powerfully positive one.

Captain Picard and Hugh lived in two different worlds at one time but eventually they had a choice on which world they would prefer to live in. Captain Picard who was once a Borg named Locutus who in the end ultimately accepted Hugh, a longtime Borg, without question and gave him the opportunity to choose which world he wanted to belong. Huge was once part of the human race as a boy was able to experience his long lost identity and human feelings separate from the hive's collective thought while on the Enterprise ship. Huge ultimately decided (as a sacrifice and to save Picard's crew and ship) to return back to the Borg ship and continue to be a Borg. A conscious choice he made. Captain Picard who was once Locutus was able to re-assert his deeply locked away human identity in order to become Picard again who quickly rejoined the human race with the help of the Enterprise crew. Picard was able to retain those feelings and understanding on what it was like to be a Borg, a revulsion and hatred he developed against the Borg collective for violating his human identity when he was forced to become a Borg. But it was that experience that caused him to finally understand Hugh when he became "human" again by asserting his independence using the personal pronoun "I."  There is no "I" for a Borg. And it was Hugh's own past experience once as a young human boy that gave him the ability to understand Picard's human race once Hugh became disconnected from the Borg collective thoughts. Two different worlds and both were able to gain valuable insight from each other only because him and his crew were able to get to know each other in person.

The message? Don't presume to think you know everything about the person until you meet him or her in person and get to know the person better.  It's better not to presume and be critical about it because chances are you'll be horribly mistaken.

UPDATE: A slight edit was done in this blog by removing a nom de plume of one person for the sake of calming people down. Secondly, a clarification. I am not making any parallels between Lotus and Locutus. If you note the spelling and capitalized letters you will see two names. Two different and separate person but the story provides an insight and a message.

UPDATE II:  Linking a person's AD account in my blog? Never did that. Never happened. All I linked was to the YouTube account's name that had the comment response in question that I copied for my blog. There was never any linking to any AD url addresses. I never mentioned anything or linked to anything about AD. There were only two sites that I did discuss and that was YouTube and ND. Instead of jumping to conclusion like always read carefully next time before claiming that I linked to AD.