Wednesday, September 29, 2010

The immaturity of some deaf people

The first time in my life did I realize that there are some people who are simply immature for what they do or have done that disrupts the lives of other people. What I'm talking about is my experience at Gallaudet University where I first stayed at Benson Hall dormitory building which is located in the center of the campus. A dorm whose building was mostly occupied by incoming freshman students. What got me and others our ire was the fact that over the course of a year there were perhaps several d/Deaf people who disrupted the entire Benson Hall dormitory building of some perhaps 200 people or so by pulling the fire alarm at 2 AM in the morning. Sometimes on rare occassions a fire alarm would go off twice in a single night forcing the still sleepy and tired occupants of Benson Hall outside into the cold night while firemen with their blaring fire trucks would come and investigate the building. Not only was I embarrassed for the fire personnel to do that on a regular basis it was also a continuing safety hazard by forcing hundreds of people out of a building because of false fire alarms pulled by cranks.  This was an embarrassing and maddening scene that I come to experience so much in a single semester while living in that dormitory. The constant false fire alarms disrupted many students sleep impacting their education throughout the day because they couldn't get enough sleep. And it wasn't just Benson Hall but other dormitories as well that experienced the false fire alarm problem such as Peet Hall, Ballard West and Ballard North dormitories which consisted of mostly the younger students (e.g. freshman, sophomore). Although I believe Benson Hall was the worst of all dormitories. While at Carlin Hall and Clerc Hall they generally have more matured students who were either juniors, seniors or graduates. I certainly don't remember much about Carlin Hall experiencing false fire alarms, perhaps one or two, at least I got my sleep over there.

Not only was Benson Hall that bad with the false fire alarms but it was bad on a morning after a night of students partying on Friday and Saturday nights would I find vomit in the elevator, the stairwells, outside near the entrances, sometimes on a wall smeared with vomit, and one or two students strewn about in the dormitory lounge area still passed out. In fact, one morning I came across a passed out male student lying face down in his own vomit on the floor in the dormitory lounge area on the second floor of Benson Hall where I stayed. It was simply a disgusting scene to experience almost every weekend. And then, of course, you have a trash problem as well.

With Gallaudet University you had your good and bad things about it. But those false fire alarms were nothing to sneeze at since it was a regular occurrence at Benson Hall back in 1988. It was a classic case of how immature people behave.  It was as if back then d/Deaf people simply accepted that as part of their "community of culture." They just shrug their shoulders and say, "Oh, well, those things happen." I would just shake my head and simply say "That's not acceptable." It was one of those experiences I had while basically living in a closed off society on the campus of Gallaudet University did I get to see some of the prevailing attitudes people had at the time. It was a revelatory time for me.

ADDENDUM: Looks like things have not changed at Benson Hall as reported in the Buff and Blue newspaper written today about the problems of false fire alarms pulled by immature cranks.

25 comments:

Rob said...

What year were you in at Gallaudet at the time?

I remembered living in Benson Hall in my 3rd and 4th years there (91 to 93). It wasn't as bad as yours, since graduate students took over half of Benson. The real bad craziness was the freshman dorms across from Benson, Clerc and Carlin, the freshman dorms had more false fire alarms pulled in one year, I recall. Northwest Campus was notorious for false fire alarms pulled, too.

Mike said...

I was there from January 1988 through the end of 1991. It was the first semester of the 1988 year that I stayed in Benson Hall. Nutty place.

Karen Mayes said...

Yeah. I also experienced it at NTID, especially Tower A (we called it TA.) I only spent one month there before moving to "SH" building where fire alarms were almost nonexistant. But I did hear a lot of students complaining about fire alarms, easpecially in TA and TB (Tower B.)

Candy said...

Yup, Benson Hall aka "Dorm 4" for me, had the most fire alarms pulled by pranksters. Luckily for me, I came in as a freshman and stayed at Ely Hall, which is now part of this student building/offices. Only experienced ONE fire prank that year. Carlin Hall, aka "Dorm 5" didn't have any when I stayed there the first year it opened. I am not sure how prevalent that is in other universities with incoming freshman, but I remember how ridiculous it was getting to be for the students to have to evacuate zillions times per week at Benson Hall.

Wow, Mike, you stayed at Bensons? haha That's the CRAZIEST dorm ever!!!

Back then, when I was there, there was no northwest campus, all the preps were in Benson.

Linda said...

Hi Mike,

I'm curious how tall those buildings were, and if you had the white strobe light flashers in each room like we had in Tower A at NTID?

Tower A was/is a 12-story building, and, no doubt, tempted the pranksters because once its strobes were set off, the whole building looked like a cross between Xmas lights and 4th of July with each room flashing at its own independent rate, so we suffered the same sort of several-times-in-one-night evacuations as well...

I remember the strobe going off yet again one night, and cursing at having to descend the stairs from the 11th floor for yet another fals alarm (really, what we dreaded was the subsequent climb up the stairs. No use waiting for the elevators with THAT many people).

But on THIS night, I got dressed again, hit the stairs, smelled SMOKE! ...and made it down the stairs in record time.

Turns out an illegal hot plate on the 10th floor had caused a real fire...

Didn't reduce the number of false alarms going forward. I don't believe that false alarms at college dorms are a deaf thing (perhaps immaturity is a "college-age" thing?), but I've always believed that those strobe lights made false alarms MUCH more attractive to pranksters, because the hearing dorms had nowhere near the frequency of false alarms. That said, we don't know the hearing status of the pranksters pulling the alarms, just that of the victims.

Thanks for the trip down memory lane, and the happy thought that we are at least no longer there shivering in the middle of the night waiting to be allowed back in our dorm rooms anymore!

- Linda NTID SVP '82, Class of '89

Dianrez said...

You're right, not acceptable.

Freshmen, both hearing and deaf, as a group are especially prone to immaturity but this quickly passes by sophomore year and you see a whole new person that doesn't resemble the same person of last year. I can attest to that, having been through freshman year myself at Gallaudet and again and again with young people in my work and with my own kids. Both hearing and deaf. Hearing kids can tell the most hair-raising stories, by the way.

I wouldn't use this attitude to paint Deaf young people with a broad brush, however. Immaturity as defined is a time limited quality and we are seeing an even more wonderful crop of young people these days.

Anonymous said...

There are immaturity of some Hearing people as well out there at Universities :)

...::: Nick :::...

Anonymous said...

Mike, it's crazy to think we were both there at the same time and I don't think I ever met you. Gallaudet is both big and small at the same time, eh? I was there from fall 89 to spring 91. I applied for admission late, so got put in Peet Hall with the freshmen. Don't recall any fire alarms being pulled that year. But the following year I was in Carlin Hall and recall having to get out of my warm cozy bed in the dark of freezing nights. Some of my grad student friends were in Benson Hall at the time and it sounded like a real zoo. My current intern tells me students who are caught pulling fire alarms are expelled, period. It's about time.
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Anonymous said...

I think back then, people thought they could get away with it, but today, malicious false fire alarm are very serious and they will be fined. And I hope people will report them because many people died of fire because they quit taking it seriously.

Why do you think it is just "deaf" people who do this?

John F. Egbert said...

There are a lot of immaturity of hearing people at many colleges and universities across the country too.

Can you give us some of your positive experiences about maturity deaf people at Gallaudet?

Anonymous said...

Well, before you ascribe this to those poor immature deaf people, talk to people who've gone to hearing colleges.

Every. Single. College. that I've graduated from - with the sole exception of the college I attended in England - had similar fire drill events, sometimes in the middle of winter.

I think it's just an immature human being thing. Or maybe a deep dark voice in our heads likes to watch underwear-clad girls dancing about in the snow. (I also attended an all-women's college for a semester. Happened there, too.) -J

CAM said...

Gallaudet is not unique - all colleges have their problems with immature freshmen partying in their dorms, doing property damages, vomiting, overdoses, drunken public behaviors, having sex in public places, and yes, the fire alarms too. It comes with being freshmen and being away from for the first time. Some of them become out of control with all that freedom but they do learn the freedom do come with a price. They do grow up as I am sure you know.

Do not pin this on just Gallaudet because it is not true specifically to deaf students. This is a college freshman behavior, not deaf behavior.

Kevin McCaul said...

That's why I chose to attend a hearing college (Syracuse University). By then, I knew some deaf students are several years behind on the maturity level as I've had it with a handful of deaf classmates in the mainstreamed program. My parents desperately wanted to me to go to NTID though.

tomwillard said...

I experienced the same thing at NTID in the 80s. They need to install cameras so they can see who is pulling the alarms, and then kick their butts off campus and out of school.

Mike said...

Linda, about Benson Hall:

Benson Hall
Benson Hall is a nine-story building that offers you predominantly double rooms arranged along two U-shaped corridors. There are a few single rooms on each floor. Approximately 32 people live in each corridor. Rooms are equipped with beds, dressers, wardrobe closets, desks, chairs, carpeting, and Venetian blinds. Community bathrooms are located in each corridor. Public areas include a large lobby and TV and phone lounges. This building accommodates 248 freshmen students.

Erected: August 1972
Number of floors: 9 plus basement
History of the building: first residence hall designed for co-ed living
Date of dedication: March 30, 1973

http://sa.gallaudet.edu/Student_Affairs/Residence_Life/Residence_Halls/Benson_Hall.html

Mike said...

Folks! Holy geez, did you not noticed the title, "The immaturity of SOME Deaf people"? And no generalization about ALL Deaf people. Ok? Calm down, please.

And, yes, I know about the immaturity of SOME hearing people in universities. I saw them with my own two beady eyes while as a grad student at University of Idaho.

What's up with the defensiveness, folks?

John Egbert, just to let you know, you're not welcomed here. I'll let your comment stay this time.

Anonymous said...

Yes, I experienced the same at University of California Berkeley. It has nothing to do with Deaf people. It is about immature freshmen or people, period.

Mike said...

anony 3:47 AM:

why so defensive?

Anonymous said...

I'm not the 3:47 anony. I think they're defensive because you're trying to make it seem as if it's a deaf people thing. In doing so, you reveal your own ignorance about the hearing world. -J

Mike said...

Hey, psst, Anony 9:08 AM,

Read the 16th comment seen just above yours on what I said on how I already said something about immature hearing people at other universities.

Stop being so defensive. And don't credit yourself too much, either.

Anonymous said...

Well, if you already admitted it, then why did you have to ask the question? You attack, so of course everyone else's response looks like a defense. You should already understand the dynamics of your own post. You attacked deaf people. It's nothing to do with a person being deaf, and everything to do with a person being, well, a person. -J

Anonymous said...

Oh and by the way... as an English teacher, yes, unfortunately, saying "some Deaf people" is construed as an attack even if you're not saying "all." You specifically target a group. If you said "the immaturity of some Black people" or "the immaturity of some women," you'd receive equally angry responses. You singled out one group, Mike. If you're honest about YOUR response (#16, above!) you'll change the title of your post to "the immaturity of some people..."

unless the point is simply to be inflammatory. In which case, go right ahead. -J

Mike said...

Anony 12:16PM and 12:21PM.

Inflammatory? It's a fact that there are some immature deaf people on campus who've done those crank. And I'm telling my story of what I've experienced.

Good. You're an "English teacher" (yet you're still anonymous). But, so what? You say it's "inflammatory." I say it isn't since the discussion is about Deaf students on the campus of Gallaudet University who do behave in such a way. Good thing there are only a few of them who are like that compared to the majority of Deaf students (at that time).

Certainly, I could write without using the word "Deaf" but then again I'll certainly see the same defensiveness from the same people because I'll have to say where this immature actions took place...at Gallaudet University.

Fact is, there are some immature Deaf people out there and hopefully most of them will have grown out of their immaturity well into adulthood.

Mike said...

Well, well, Buff and Blue wrote an article today about the problems of false fire alarms at Benson Hall. How coincidental!

http://www.thebuffandblue.net/?p=3340#comment-285

Anonymous said...

Yeah some immature oral deaf, yep I agree